Any gay dating advice?

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WessleWoggle said:
Okay guys, our date went great. We met in front of the mall and went and smoked in his car. He was a very interesting person, and he looks a lot younger in person. He does have a terrorist beard right now though, I'm going to tell him he has to shave it before we do anything. He told me he was very worried about meeting a 17 year old. He said if there was anyone else with me he would have ran from fear of being beat up. At that point I told him that I had a chain, and he didn't think it was weird or anything, he understood. He was very understanding. I didn't want to go to his house at first, and he understood. After we gone done smoking and talking I felt I knew him a little better, we went to his house.

It's like 15 mins out in the woods... Creepy! But it's very very beautiful, it's two story(ish). The top story is on the ground, but it's built right by an incline, so the house goes off the incline and is supported by beams and the lower story. It has big windows with a beautiful view of the river. It's such a nice place...

We chilled and drank a beer and smoked. He told me if I wanted to do anything sexual all I had to do was say. But he says regardless of if we hook up sexually, he would still like to be friends because he think's I'm a cool person. We share similar interests(yoga, health). I think he's a cool person too, he's one of the best guitar players I've seen, and he plays with so much passion. He is also into hallucinogenics. I could have got some shrooms last night if I wanted.

His past relationships have been mostly (crazy) women, but he did mess around with guys when he was younger. He told me he doesn't like kissing guys and find it's weird unless the moment is right. He told me a lot of stuff he shouldn't have too, about weed growing and such. Why do new friends seem to trust me with sensitive information the first or second time they meet me? Do I really come off that trustworthy? I got shy towards the end of the night because there was too much sex talk. But he didn't pressure me at all, I actually might have been up for giving and taking some head if it wasn't for my damn pimple.

I'm going to call him again to day for a talk about what I want from the relationship. First, I'm telling him to get rid of the terrorist beard. Second, I'm telling him I don't want to do anything sexual right away but he's a cool person and I would like to be friends.

I felt like I should have hugged him goodbye... But as I said I got really shy towards the end of the night.

Sounds like a good date

 

I'm glad it all worked out and he isn't a creeper/killer/etc.