I will allow Alan Partridge to give you his advice on gay dating in this classic piece of British comedy...

(Watch from about 0:10 to 0:35 seconds)

No he isn't.

OT - I dated a 30 yr old when I was 18, he looked a lot younger though, having said that the age didn't really get in the way of anything. What advice do you need exactly? Just be safe is all I have to say ..

Seriously though, be careful Wessle. You're 17, and this guy is in his 30's. He's definitely going to be more experienced, and less naive than you are. We don't want you getting hurt, man. Aside from that, I hope you have the time of your life.

My suggestion is that pants are taboo, am I right?

oh yeah!

Is it respectful or disrespectful to lube the ring finger as well as the index and middle? I mean the guy is pushing past 30 so you might expect him to be well used.

lol ew, somehow I think it's wessle that will be on his back not the 30 yr old

I find all this gay talk from you to be unsettling. I suggest you hide in my closet for a while, it'll make me feel better.

You're the one making remarks about lubbing the ring finger and it's seece's comment that is making you uncomfortable?

lol he was cracking a joke