you + wife? does not compute.

This isn't one of your fantasies, seece. I'm straight in real life :P

Yeah ok

I wouldn't know myself, though I've heard it's not all that and its best to wait. And that's what I've been doing a good girl will come along =D

EDIT:

It mostly depends on your sex drive. If it's big then you'll love it, but if it's low you will think it's useless.

Yes it feels very good and I'm always looking forward to the next time.

I don't think it's overrated... Just have to find the good partner (and helps if you're good yourself ).

So how do you go about it the first time (Which in my case won't happen in a while) do you go with a killer mentality or if its a partner with more experience, should they lead?

"killer" mentality isn't what i would say to do ... i mean when its your first time so make it special... believe me you dont want to lose your virginity to some guy you have known for a week.... i promise.. it sucks. be nice and slow. make it an enjoyable experience. dont be scared to tell you partner what you like and what you dont like... no shame. you just dont wana get rubbed the wrong way... lol..pun...

Thats better, and I think your right. Nice and Slow is the way to go. But probably the events leading up to it, is probably the best.

Sex is akward or good depending on your sexual experience and how comfortable you and your partner are with eachother.