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Esmoreit on 12 August 2009

Craan, I'll tell you what I did. Yes, I can answer that question from practice rather then theory. Where did you think thta my "married/taken girls" statement comes from :D?

First of all, what you do besides the sex is understanding why you are doing it. In general, the women are in a sucky marriage. Case in point, her husband didn't care much for her so she sought some form of companionship outside of marriage.
Secondly, I can honestly say that I was "there for her". I listened to her when she was down and when she finally got a divorce helped her through that.

In her words, when she was looking for something else, it means that she just isn't happy. And I reckon that without me the divorce would've happened a lot sooner.



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Craan on 12 August 2009

You 'reckon'. I didn't know people said that outside the south much less in other countries what would you do if you got someone pregnant, or have you gotten a vasectomy?



Esmoreit on 12 August 2009

I haven't gotten anyone pregnant and I don't intend to either. Most of the girls have anti-conception and I always carry a condom.

In the slim chance something happens I will discuss the possibility of an abortion and I will make it clear that I do not intend to be a father yet.



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BoleroOfFire on 12 August 2009
Esmoreit said:
BoleroOfFire said:
Ruined by the inclusion of married/taken girls.

Well, I know it's a controversial point but it's the truth and had to be included. Married and taken girls can be quite prone in cheating/finding a lover, and after a few years I can imagine why. A stale relationship is usually a death-knell. Personally I found that not being monogamous is far more healthy for your relationship then just sticking to the one guy/girl. You just have to be confident in one another and know how to seperate lust from love. Lust ís far more important in a relationship then some might think...


And Galerne is right, pick the right bars. There is no clear distinction in bars for each type of girl but if your living in a town and know your way around it, you'll know what to look for.

There's nothing controversial about it.  The person is in a relationship/marriage and nobody should get in the middle of that.  The whole "stale relationship" excuse is just that.  If the relationship/marriage is so bad, then either get counseling or get out.  There are plenty of fish looking for casual sex in the sea.  Why go for the one that can result in a lot of people getting hurt?  There can be children involved.  Would it not bother your conscience that you could be the direct cause of breaking up a home?   



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Seece on 12 August 2009

Yeah sleeping with someone married is whack ..



 

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Esmoreit on 13 August 2009
BoleroOfFire said:
Esmoreit said:
BoleroOfFire said:
Ruined by the inclusion of married/taken girls.

Well, I know it's a controversial point but it's the truth and had to be included. Married and taken girls can be quite prone in cheating/finding a lover, and after a few years I can imagine why. A stale relationship is usually a death-knell. Personally I found that not being monogamous is far more healthy for your relationship then just sticking to the one guy/girl. You just have to be confident in one another and know how to seperate lust from love. Lust ís far more important in a relationship then some might think...


And Galerne is right, pick the right bars. There is no clear distinction in bars for each type of girl but if your living in a town and know your way around it, you'll know what to look for.

There's nothing controversial about it.  The person is in a relationship/marriage and nobody should get in the middle of that.  The whole "stale relationship" excuse is just that.  If the relationship/marriage is so bad, then either get counseling or get out.  There are plenty of fish looking for casual sex in the sea.  Why go for the one that can result in a lot of people getting hurt?  There can be children involved.  Would it not bother your conscience that you could be the direct cause of breaking up a home?   


First of all, no it would not bother me. I already said, no feelings is the way to go and there is a reason my friends call me an unethical prick :d. Irregardless, I could write a guide on how to not get caught but in truth is, I'm not coming in between anything. I'm not there to make her fall in love with or marrying me. From the married class of women there are 2 types - women unhappy in their marriage (and who would likely divorce anyway) and the girls who still love the husband but wouldn't stay there if the sex is boring. I usually advice cuckolding but most men aren't that lenient. The way I see it, there is a good chance that a lover actually keeps marriages together.



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Seece on 13 August 2009
Esmoreit said:
BoleroOfFire said:
Esmoreit said:
BoleroOfFire said:
Ruined by the inclusion of married/taken girls.

Well, I know it's a controversial point but it's the truth and had to be included. Married and taken girls can be quite prone in cheating/finding a lover, and after a few years I can imagine why. A stale relationship is usually a death-knell. Personally I found that not being monogamous is far more healthy for your relationship then just sticking to the one guy/girl. You just have to be confident in one another and know how to seperate lust from love. Lust ís far more important in a relationship then some might think...


And Galerne is right, pick the right bars. There is no clear distinction in bars for each type of girl but if your living in a town and know your way around it, you'll know what to look for.

There's nothing controversial about it.  The person is in a relationship/marriage and nobody should get in the middle of that.  The whole "stale relationship" excuse is just that.  If the relationship/marriage is so bad, then either get counseling or get out.  There are plenty of fish looking for casual sex in the sea.  Why go for the one that can result in a lot of people getting hurt?  There can be children involved.  Would it not bother your conscience that you could be the direct cause of breaking up a home?   


First of all, no it would not bother me. I already said, no feelings is the way to go and there is a reason my friends call me an unethical prick :d. Irregardless, I could write a guide on how to not get caught but in truth is, I'm not coming in between anything. I'm not there to make her fall in love with or marrying me. From the married class of women there are 2 types - women unhappy in their marriage (and who would likely divorce anyway) and the girls who still love the husband but wouldn't stay there if the sex is boring. I usually advice cuckolding but most men aren't that lenient. The way I see it, there is a good chance that a lover actually keeps marriages together.

lol we know why you do it, just stop trying to justify it as right because it plainly isn't.



 

Craan on 13 August 2009

adultery is bad mmkay



kirby007 on 01 April 2018

This is fitting for this day and age



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