Craan, I'll tell you what I did. Yes, I can answer that question from practice rather then theory. Where did you think thta my "married/taken girls" statement comes from :D?
First of all, what you do besides the sex is understanding why you are doing it. In general, the women are in a sucky marriage. Case in point, her husband didn't care much for her so she sought some form of companionship outside of marriage.
Secondly, I can honestly say that I was "there for her". I listened to her when she was down and when she finally got a divorce helped her through that.
In her words, when she was looking for something else, it means that she just isn't happy. And I reckon that without me the divorce would've happened a lot sooner.
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