He doesn't sound too mature to me. First, he's discussing his relationship biz with you. Second, you're posting his biz on the Web for advice. Lastly, if he's playing video games so much that he doesn't have time for her, he's prolly not ready for a relationship.

I know several guys who lack social skills, still staying with their momz and just about as clueless as Palin. The only game they have is on LIVE or PSN. They just need a jumpoff, likely one they have to pay.

I don't suffer from that prob. I play video games - wifey's not crazy about it - but we definitely have an understanding. That's the key. If you care enough for a woman, you'll change.

I will say though - I'll gladly pass up an achievement or a PSN trophy to chill wit wifey. Gaming can't even roll wit good lovin', son.

Achievement unlocked: Strokemaster Flash

That sucks.

methinks hypnotherapy for her might be in order.

OTher than that I'm all out of ideas.

Wow madskillz. Way to not read anything except the tread title.

there is nothing wrong with discussing relationship issues with your brother.
There is also nothing wrong with asking on the internet for advice, especially for this sort of problem

The OP already stated that the issue is not that video games are taking so much time that he can't see his girlfriend enough, please ead before writing

As for 'If you care enough for a woman, you'll change' That's the biggest crock ever. If your wife said to you "You should not play video games ever again" and the only reason she gave was that she believes them to be a waste of time, would you do it?

First. I'm his brother if he can't talk to me about relationship problems who else is he going to tell?

Second. Yes Im posting it on a site that neither of them no about under an alias without using any names or pictures.

Third. He spends almost every waking moment with her. I'm his brother and When I was back home I barely got to see him. He's either Working or Hanging out with her and if she's working thats when he plays his video games.

He moved out and into his own place about a Year ago.

If you werent going to help or say anything positive just GTFO 

Ha Shadowsoldier! - this time I got my reply in first :D

I say let her leave. I wouldn't let a woman stop me from playing games. Your brother is young and there are plenty of girls out there for him. Now if your brother love her then that's different. She could be his future wife.

Meh, he's 19, he'll find someone else.

DAMN YOU SCOTTIE.....I'm sorry I have to use the Star Trek joke.

BEAM ME UP SCOTTIE

Haha, that's a new one :P

Next you'll bring out Scottie doesn't know..