@ Laffer )
Those connection problems sound more like problems with your ISP or your router to me.
I can connect to the japanese Home from germany without any problems, so there shouldn't be a problem to do so vice versa.
And really, you can't expect jpn game versions to have english or german language options. I expect over 99% of the games on other consoles to be only in japanese, while for the PS3 it might only be ~80%.
If you want english language then import the "asian" versions from Hong Kong (they might even be less expensive than the jpn versions).
BTW, if you want to/have to live in Japan for several years I think you really should learn the ~2000 joyo kanji (and ofcourse Hiragana/Katakana). Being able to read is a very important skill in every countries society. I personally currently am learning them and memorized about 500 of them within a month with the system introduced by J. W. Heisig.








