yeah, not appropiate at all..and i will seriously be telling my husband!

Your husband is a great man. He's really good in the database, among other places.

me too

Norlead is an inspiration for all the nerdy looking guys who aspire to get a good looking woman Unless it was an arranged marriage j/k

Well there was no premarital sex, so obviously it was an arranged marriage. Nordlead and the Missus, what kind of trading did your parents partake in for this arrangement? Was it political power? Cash? Land? I bet it was land.

Stock. I bet you it was stock.

I'm also tryign to figure out how this works within the Ladder Theory.

Livestock or stock market stock? I bet it was livestock. Mrs. Nordlead looks like a good catch so I bet quite a few beefs, porks, chicken fingers, lambchops and other assorted varieties of deliciousness went into this arranged business of marriage. Maybe even some turnips also.

Oew toughy. My guess is that the whole prospect of marriage will immidiatly screw up the ladder theory - i.e. marriage = love of my live = man that will have my babiez. So despite rationale claiming the opposite, the guy is immidiatly placed on the sex-ladder. As the years progress, the guy is actually "pushed" to the other ladder and this results in the couple ending up on Dr. Phil with the title:

"Dr. Phil help! My sexlife is boring".

 This is also why I shall urge my girlfriends to try other things outside of bed. With other girls. Naturally.

???

Man, duck is the new beef. Also you have to explain to me how this whole thing works within the ladder theory