Do you know what the words "many" and "most" mean?

Letting us know the official statistics are 1 in 6 women, "most" would be somewhere in the range of 4-5 in actuality. That's an awful lot of unreported cases if true, and less even admitting it through whatever means the stats were collected by. It's hard to buy, since my own anecdotal evidence, which should be just as important as yours, tells me that 4 or 5 out of every 6 women I know haven't been raped. Not even close.

You say "many" men take it lightly, and base it on one man making a joke out of the other 6 or 7 that took the topic seriously.

what about men raped by women?.

it happens.

not me though

I wouldn't be surprised if some of the "studies" counted that.

Man 1 is with a girl, she tells him to stop, he doesn't, she tells him again, he goes on.

Man 2 is with a girl, she tells him to stop, he doesn't, she tells him again, he stops.

The question in the study sasy "Has a woman ever told you to stop and you didn't?"

Both men answer yes while really only one of those is rape.

As soon as the NO registers in your brain and you've determined it's serious, your next consious thrust is non-consentual. Consent can be revoked at any moment.

Actually in this topic and outside I make generalizations intentionally. It ignites the discussion and gets people to put out their real attitudes on the matter. (nobodies gonna say anything until they can find a weakness in my argument to attack ;) )

Also don't drag the men raped by women thing in. Yeah it happens. Occasionally. Usually males who were raped were raped by another male. The statistics on that one wouldn't be so hard to find but I think you KNOW that one.

and Twesterm, are you actually DENYING that 1 in 6 stat is true? Cause thats about the lowest one I can find.

But this is what I was getting at, this is what i was trying to provoke. Men will deny this stuff. They will argue the frequency. Fact is if firm statistics are based off of whats reported, what exactly are they if it was ALL reported?

Oh. I've been raped then.

I used to work really long hours. My ex-wife and I were having sex and she was riding me. I was just wiped and I told her I didn't want to anymore because I was just too tired. She told me to suck it up because she was almost cumming. She thrusted after I told her I didn't want to have sex anymore. It was non-consentual. I should have put her in jail for that.

I deny most statistics because 3 in 7 statistics are completely made up or engineered.

So what is your purpose in creating this thread?  To make the males on this forum realize that more women are raped than we realize?  To what end?  To encourage us not to rape anyone on the way home?  I don't understand.