I'm Dutch, and we invite other people to join us in the bedroom, or we visit swinger-clubs. Does that about cover it concerning the restrictions of our relationship?

I'm and exception though. Within our group of friends, only one other guy feels this way, or to word it better: has the same restrictions.
All other guys are like the general tendency in this thread. Don't mind it if their girl talks to other men as long as it's just that. Flirting is also ok.

As for the girls, they don't mind it if their guys flirt. One of my mates even shows his girl how may telephone numbers he got that night...

But I wonder why would you need to look at other girls when you already have a pretty girlfriend? I really fail to understand.

Why do you look to other paintings when you already have one....? Because no one looks the same and it is nice/interesting to watch to others. People know they can't touch it ;...=p.


Yeah crazy, I am comparing paintings with girls ^^'';

Ugh! I'll never understand, since to me, it sounds like the girl isn't enough, therefor lack of respect.

I know it's just looking and no touching and you may really love your gf but why do you need to see other girls?

Is it necessary?

To me, it sounds like: "You're not enough for me so I need to look at other women."

Seems like I'm almost the only one to feel that way here...

I know it sounds silly, but I get the calender (free with mag) before I even met Natalie. To be honest I use the calender as a calender, I couldn't even name the girls in that calender. The only one I can is Rachel Stevens. And knows I love her, so she's cool.

Mkies fair enough... That another way of seeing that. Will think about it. Thanks.

Well, you are the only girl here...

I kind of agree with you though...I mean the worst I'm guilty of is this avatar heh. God knows how long it's been since I last came into contact with any kind of actual porn :P

Stuff like that would only communicate bad messages. Espescially after a long relationship, she could be thinking that you're no longer attracted to her (among other things). Obviously not something you'd want to happen. 

Well yeah that's what I thought... The only girl here and in some post I made I said I wanted to see if gender had anything to do with it...

Also, I think too that it could send a bad message...

@ loli - At the end of the day she is my girlfriend and I hope she knows that nothing compares to her...

Oh my god, how soppy am I?

I give it up..