Respect?

[lolita]

--OkeyDokey-- said:

lolita said:
Ugh! I'll never understand, since to me, it sounds like the girl isn't enough, therefor lack of respect.

I know it's just looking and no touching and you may really love your gf but why do you need to see other girls?

Is it necessary?

To me, it sounds like: "You're not enough for me so I need to look at other women."

Seems like I'm almost the only one to feel that way here...

Well, you are the only girl here...

I kind of agree with you though...I mean the worst I'm guilty of is this avatar heh. God knows how long it's been since I last came into contact with any kind of actual porn :P

Stuff like that would only communicate bad messages. Espescially after a long relationship, she could be thinking that you're no longer attracted to her (among other things). Obviously not something you'd want to happen. 

Well yeah that's what I thought... The only girl here and in some post I made I said I wanted to see if gender had anything to do with it...

Also, I think too that it could send a bad message...