OK.. brawl - she will not get much out of it if she is 10 (and found Sunshine difficult last year) because it is a pretty difficult game to learn and get used to, and to be honest, i think it is geared slightly more towards boys, despite my relos (some of which being girls) loving it.. but a 10yr old girl might not get the same pleasure from getting beaten to death on easy mode
SMG - the games first 60 stars are easy enough, sunshine was a complicated game, that usually required near perfect movements which is probably why you had to play through the whole game with her... SMG is not the same, the difficulty builds up slowly while also having fun games like manta racing which she can enjoy herself
Zack and Wiki - only commenting on this because a few people mentioned it.. No.. just no.. not for a 10 year old. EDIT:masschamber makes a good point in that younger people may find it easier to solve certain problems than older people
RRR1 - these are pretty fun minigame collections, which i believe are worth their value, however, they are more fun when played with others, so if she doesn't have a brother/sister/cousin to consistently play with, you'll find yourself playing this with her too
Super Paper Mario - maybe..... well it has an easy to follow story.. but its main problem would be too much story (text) and if she doesn't like that then stay away, the 2d -> 3d thing may be hard for her too, not sure
Endless Ocean - its a nice game, if she doesn't care too much about high scores, beating friends, finishing the game, then this is a good pickup for just some fun swimming
MySims - haven't played this one myself, but i was interested in it for quite a while.. if she likes previous sim games, this might be a good pickup for her, has a more fun approach to the sims
Mario Kart - if she can hold out for it
Anyone else find it extremely funny how after 3 pages, we are still struggling to find a 10 year old girl a suitable game for the "kiddy" console?