I have a 9YO girl that likes violent games as well. She played endless ocean and animal crossing (DS and GC) a LOT. She also really likes some of the more violent games out on the 360 and Wii.
One game instantly comes to mind that we ALL play. Mario Kart. If you HAVE to buy a game right now, buy the complete star wars trilogy. It is remarkably fun for an adult and a kid and has a LOT of content.
My daughter also enjoyed the heck out of Twilight Princess and it does provide a significant experience as well.
I hate trolls.
Systems I currently own: 360, PS3, Wii, DS Lite (2)
Systems I've owned: PS2, PS1, Dreamcast, Saturn, 3DO, Genesis, Gamecube, N64, SNES, NES, GBA, GB, C64, Amiga, Atari 2600 and 5200, Sega Game Gear, Vectrex, Intellivision, Pong. Yes, Pong.
