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DrDoomz said:

That's good to hear.

My question had a lot to do with the reason behind the condemnation these parents seem to be suffering. 

I don't think your question has anything to do the topic. This is not at all about legalisation.

A lot of people are condemning them behind their motivations/thoughts but not really their actions. Their actions might have homophobic roots but homophobia is something people are allowed to have unless they act on it and hurt/oppress others. Protesting over something you care about,however, is well within their rights (again, I condemn those who use threats/acts of violence).

No most people are exactly condeming their action. The action is not just people protesting, the action is people protesting in order to remove LGBT+ people from school books.

To contrast, what they are fighting against is government being able to actively instill values they do not agree with onto their children and the loss of choice against such government acts. The ONLY time IMO that government is allowed to overrule the parents is when there is direct harm/risk on the kids themselves and others.

When compared to each other I find the latter far more distasteful than the former. Far far FAR more. Everyone should be scared about it regardless of where your politics lie.

It doesn't matter if we disagree with their values, they have the right to have it.

This is a overly dramatic way to describe a mandatory education system. I think mandatory education systems are a huge achievement and something very good but you seem to disagree with me.

Also nobody is disputing that an individual can have its own values and the possibility to pass those values on to its children. The question is who should decide how children are educated? the parents or society aka the state?



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Torillian said:
DrDoomz said:

So purge the ppl who don't believe as we do? I disagree. The goal of public school is to educate. Some of those lessons may even cover values. But parents are allowed to not agree with values taught at school (as values can be subjective) and are free to express this disagreement via protest. If there is enough of a protest, schools are then given a choice to engage in dialogue and offer compromises to alleviate this conflict. The beauty of this process is that it may even teach the more ignorant parents the correct facts behind the lesson and they may even get on board (who knows?). But the fact that the parents used a legal and commendable method to express their disagreement is something that we should not condemn, regardless of their politics.

Well, then maybe you should ask that teaching homophobic-shittiness at home be outlawed if you have issues with that. But opting out of an LGBT lesson is NOT directly teaching kids to be shitty homophobes. And saying that opting out of LGBT classes to 5 year old directly turns the kids into homophobic shits is a bit of a non-sequitur. 

So choice only applies for as long as the choice is something that we agree with? Not really how I feel. Personally, I feel parents should be given the right to home school their kids if they want (especially when education is starting to become politicized these days). Until the kids are old enough to make their own decisions, that is. Also, not learning about biology, history or medicine does not make you a evolution/holocaust/medicine denier. That's a bit of a stretch there. You understand that "accepting of others" also means accepting their culture? Islam is a huge part of their culture. And it has strong roots w/c is not accepting of LGBT acts. Why insist them accepting something they don't want to? The evil is when they act on it, but their thoughts are not yours to control.

Never said they can't protest, but that public schools should still teach acceptance regardless of their protests. 

We have to let them teach what they want to their kids at home, but as a society we are also better off if our schools do their best to teach kids acceptance regardless of the parents not wanting it. I'm saying that if you don't want your kids to know that gay people exist, you are almost certainly doing so because you are teaching them to be homophobic shits, not that the act of them opting out turns them into that. 

We have as a society decided that public school is a necessity to bring up good members of society. Part of that is teaching them to be accepting of others who are different. They can home school their kids if they want (noone said they couldn't) but public school should do its best to better society. I'm not saying that not learning about biology, history, or medicine turns you into those things (you've done this twice and I'm not sure if you're being disingenuous or you seriously don't understand what I'm saying) I'm giving examples of types of beliefs that would have to be acquiesced to if one were to go down this road that I would disagree with acquiescing to. It is not required that my acceptance of others also means I have to accept their non-acceptance. Just like my tolerance of others does not mean I must tolerate the intolerant. I am not trying to control their thoughts, I'm trying to make sure that their children aren't brought up with only one side of the story. 

And I agree. The schools should teach it. Parents should just be given the CHOICE to opt out. The school teaching the lessons and the parents opting out is not mutually exclusive. Most parents may want their kids to be taught said lesson after all.

We share the same values. I feel the lesson is a good thing. What I do not agree with is fact that there is no choice in it. Consider this: you will not always agree with what the majority feels is socially important at the time. Things change and priorities and politics can change. One day you might disagree with something the schools are teaching.

Then what you are doing via mandatory lessons in non-universally accepted values and values that directly contradict with culture is to force those with said culture to home school their kids. Instead of being given a choice and have them (grudgingly or not) enroll their kids into schools that can help said kids assimilate better, they will end up taking their kids out of school. If you think their thoughts are harmful now, consider the impact if 100% of the kids' information come directly from said parents. I feel that you are losing the forest for the trees here. I am not trying to be disingenuous here (and when was the first time I "did this"?) I simply reversed your logic to demonstrate its flaws and to make it more relevant to our discussion. We do not take away choice and choice is not evil/extreme just because other ppl exercise their choice to come up with some pretty evil/extreme beliefs.

People like to throw around the "tolerate the intolerant" thing like it justifies intolerance. It does not. Intolerance is nuanced and has levels. We all each have our prejudices but we do not dismiss the argument coming from the other side and excuse our actions or dehumanize them just because we can label them or their beliefs as intolerant. Basically, you do not "win" the debate just because you can call the other side racist. I am not saying you are doing any of this, just saying that this is what a lot of people believe and this is in line with my point. We always determine what action causes more direct harm in the overall scope of things. Thoughts and opinions do no harm unless they are acted upon.  Oppressing a culture (and that is how I see the whole "you must assimilate the values I want right now with no choice") does a lot of harm regardless of good intentions.



RolStoppable said:
By the way, not all muslims are the same, just like christians do not all agree to the same degree with their church. This topic is about ultra-conservative muslims, but it's certain that there are muslims out there who don't agree with the hardliners' stance on homosexuality. Would such muslims be islamophobes?

Maybe to hardliners.  That's why I don't fuck around with mainstream religion.  You can never please the fucking hardliners.  Hell there are Catholics that probably still consider masturbation a crime.  If that's the case I've killed millions of babies and I am proud.  See what work I did there to come up with last sentence that usually most people would be disgusted by?  You've killed millions of babies?  Disgusting.  Oh you were just masturbating? Nevermind.  See this is where you can seperate the religious nut jobs from normal people. 



MrWayne said:
DrDoomz said:

That's good to hear.

My question had a lot to do with the reason behind the condemnation these parents seem to be suffering. 

1) I don't think your question has anything to do the topic. This is not at all about legalisation.

A lot of people are condemning them behind their motivations/thoughts but not really their actions. Their actions might have homophobic roots but homophobia is something people are allowed to have unless they act on it and hurt/oppress others. Protesting over something you care about,however, is well within their rights (again, I condemn those who use threats/acts of violence).

2) No most people are exactly condeming their action. The action is not just people protesting, the action is people protesting in order to remove LGBT+ people from school books.

To contrast, what they are fighting against is government being able to actively instill values they do not agree with onto their children and the loss of choice against such government acts. The ONLY time IMO that government is allowed to overrule the parents is when there is direct harm/risk on the kids themselves and others.

When compared to each other I find the latter far more distasteful than the former. Far far FAR more. Everyone should be scared about it regardless of where your politics lie.

It doesn't matter if we disagree with their values, they have the right to have it.

3) This is a overly dramatic way to describe a mandatory education system. I think mandatory education systems are a huge achievement and something very good but you seem to disagree with me.

4) Also nobody is disputing that an individual can have its own values and the possibility to pass those values on to its children. The question is who should decide how children are educated? the parents or society aka the state?

1) Mandatory education has a lot to do with legislation does it not? I know it's not ALL ABOUT legislation but legislation has something to do with this so I feel that my question was not off topic.

My point was to illustrate what people should find condmenable. We condemn actions not thoughts.

2) And I will disagree with them if it is about removing LGBT people from books.  The ones I agree with are the ones simply asking to opt out. They should have that choice.

3) When one can insert one's politics into mandatory education. You make one's politics mandatory. The fact is, I agree with the LGBT lessons being there. I disagree about it being mandatory seeing as there could be a time wherein I will disagree with the majority politics at the time and I would also want to be heard when that happens.

4) I'm sorry but the current majority does not get to decide how I raise my kids. My values may be in line with the majority atm, but that will not always be the case and when that time comes, I reserve the right to protest and let my voice be heard.



Snoopy said:

Still liberals nonetheless and a huge chunk of them that hold this belief. But hey, lets cherry pick the few liberals that don't call out Islam.

The bulk of Islamic religious extremists aren't liberal... So there is that.

They sure like voting for Democrats because of the whole open borders and little to no vetting.



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Pemalite said:
Immersiveunreality said:

Thats good,its your body and your happiness.

People that think sexual freedom is something negative might be religious,jealous,or scarred from dishonest relationships and are confused it relates to this.

Precisely. Life is short, I am going to enjoy each and every single moment of it... If that means I get to be nekkid more often, then why not?

DrDoomz said:

That's good to hear.

My question had a lot to do with the reason behind the condemnation these parents seem to be suffering. 

A lot of people are condemning them behind their motivations/thoughts but not really their actions. Their actions might have homophobic roots but homophobia is something people are allowed to have unless they act on it and hurt/oppress others. Protesting over something you care about, however, is well within their rights (again, I condemn those who use threats/acts of violence).

To contrast, what they are fighting against is government being able to actively instill values they do not agree with onto their children and the loss of choice against such government acts. The ONLY time IMO that government is allowed to overrule the parents is when there is direct harm/risk on the kids themselves and others.

When compared to each other I find the latter far more distasteful than the former. Far far FAR more. Everyone should be scared about it regardless of where your politics lie.

It doesn't matter if we disagree with their values, they have the right to have it.

To counteract this... We also have the issue of who is genuinely, morally right.
And I would argue that several thousand year old values are irrelevant to today... Let alone values from even a few decades ago.

But what about the LGBT children and the bullying, harassment, missed opportunities, bigotry and so on they face? Don't they get to live a safe and happy life and be treated as equals in all aspects of society?

RolStoppable said:
By the way, not all muslims are the same, just like christians do not all agree to the same degree with their church. This topic is about ultra-conservative muslims, but it's certain that there are muslims out there who don't agree with the hardliners' stance on homosexuality. Would such muslims be islamophobes?

Hence the plethora of denominations, there are different interpretations of the various Abrahamic religions... Which means in Christianity alone we have 30,000 - 40,000 different interpretations of just the Bible.

With Islam there are 73~ and Judaism has a heap as well.

In short... Not even those who follow the Bible, Quran or Torah can agree on anything... Which just further solidifies the Atheist stance that they are all irrelevant until their claims can actually be substantiated with empirical evidence.

Wedge said:

You totally missed the point.

No. You missed the point. The point is that all your religious claims and positions are rendered pointless until you can prove your religious assertions with empirical evidence.

Wedge said:

You said it yourself, "good and evil does exist, but they can differ from ones own perspective.", so what if I see good in killing? why does that bother you if you're not the one being killed? it's my own perspective of good, you might say humanity and compassion and whatnot, I say that they're relative too, why would you want to impose your standards on me?

Again... You missed the point where I elaborated on the construct of "Empathy".

That is... Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself.
The pain you would feel is generally not a pain you would inflict upon others.

Wedge said:

Most of the "prophets" of atheism like Richard Dawkins, Lauren Krauss, Carl Sagan and Sam Harris, all see that morals and ethics are relative, so defending them rationally, without falling into logical fallacies and rhetoric is a waste of time, you just have to read. also, being a human construct doesn't mean it's the right thing, relativity of morals destroys the concept of right and wrong.

Atheism doesn't have prophets or anything similar to the religious alternative.
It is based on the fact that until there is evidence to substantiate a claim, then that claim can be discarded... It is no more simple or complex than that.

Atheism isn't a disbelief in God or the rejection of God. It is the rejection of the assertions that have been put forth by religion as there is zero evidence to backup their claims.

Wedge said:

You save peoples lives, and? what do you gain from that? only feeling good about yourself because you believe in the illusion (from an atheistic view) called absolute morals, and either if you save lives or kill people your destiny is the same: void, sooner or later. there's no point in risking your own and only life to save others lives, this is absurd.

No. That is what you believe, not what I believe.
Do not put words into my mouth or presume to know what I feel, especially as you have absolutely zero evidence to backup such claims and never will.

Wedge said:

The arguments against religion that you presented are overused by superficial atheists, besides relying on the absoluteness of morals (which can only be true when there's a superior authority that defines what's right and what's wrong and rewards the right doers and punished the wrong doers), there's more to say: the genetic argument was debunked long ago, you just have to search, homosexuality is nothing but a normal consequence of the sexualisation and pussification of the western society (no offense), including teaching children that those kind of sex topics are banal. been told and persuaded with by media and school.

And yet... Religious supporters haven't been able to thoroughly debunk those arguments without delving into logical fallacies or unsubstantiated claims.

No. Homosexuality having a genetic component being debunked is fake news, you need to study how genetics, the environment and biology functions, you won't get that information from a Bible.

Wedge said:

As for the terrorism argument: are the evil acts of a certain group that claims to follow an ideology an argument against the ideology itself? obviously no, read about Islamic rules of war and true jihads, you'll find that killing women, children, old people, priests, craftsmen, captives, unarmed people etc... is prohibited, only adult armed men who are engaged in the conflict can be fought. of course you don't know that because your source of info is working on tarnishing the image of Islam, what did you expect from them? and still this is just a tiny portion of the truth.

Fact of the matter is... People all through history have leveraged religion to gain power and wealth... And it still continues to this day.

You have Christian Terrorists over in Africa, Islamic and Jewish Terrorists in the Middle East, Buddhist Terrorists in Asia... List goes on.

When you have the Quran, Torah and the Bibles Old Testament preaching death to infidels... And then mix those messages with those who believe in such texts in a literal sense (Again, without evidence!) and then that becomes a dangerous concoction, wouldn't you agree?

This is why the Atheist position is the only logical position, we discard all claims that aren't backed by evidence, by the scientific method, which aren't logically sound.

Wedge said:

You're dealing with Islam here, not Christianity, the big bang theory is clearly stated in the Quran, as for evolution, there are muslims who believe in it, those who believe in guided evolution and those who reject it, if you want me to open that topic too I'll gladly do.

They write the texts in such an ambiguous way that it can be interpreted to apply to a vast amount of possible scenarios... The Quran doesn't speak of The Big Bang theory within a scientific context it speaks in riddles to make it seem like it.

Evolution is fact anyway.

Snoopy said:

Still liberals nonetheless and a huge chunk of them that hold this belief. But hey, lets cherry pick the few liberals that don't call out Islam.

The bulk of Islamic religious extremists aren't liberal... So there is that.

Zero evidence? are you sure? did you put some effort in learning about Islam or, as I stated before, are content with your current situation because you're happy with it?

You missed my point again concerning empathy, and you think I'm the one missing your point, what ever the feeling is, it is relative. "Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself", and if I don't abide by this rule? nothing obligates me.

Can't you see that I put the word prophet between quotes? I know what atheism is, probably more than you, you ignore simple atheistic facts such as morals relativism.

You fell into double standard fallacy buddy, you kept saying that I have no evidence to backup my claims, and yet you just throw statements randomly without providing evidence. And where did I put words into your mouth?

You want evidences, here you go: check the 3rd question in this page, read "Exploring dimensions of human sexuality" and "My genes made me do it"

I already told you that the evil acts of a certain group that claims to follow an ideology is not an argument against the ideology itself, why do you insist on ignoring this? The fact that you see the all religions as the same is another proof of your superficiality.

Ambiguous? this?: Big bang [Quran 21.30] Do not those who disbelieve see that the heavens and the Earth were meshed together then We ripped them apart? And then We made of water everything living? Would they still not believe? ; Expansion  [Quran 51.47] And the heaven, We built it with craftsmanship and We are still expanding. ; Big crunch [Quran 21.104] On the day when We will fold the heaven, like the folder compacts the books, and as We originated the first creation We shall return it; a promise (binding on Us); surely We will deliver.   If this is ambiguous then you probably want God to use scientific term even if they didn't exist 1400 years ago, add to that that the Quran is not science book, so it doesn't have to go through details.

Evolution is a fact because you've been told so, and tbh it's a very fancy theory, but have you ever searched about the counter-arguments? or do you only believe in it because it is the only explanation available for the origin of creatures, let's not open this topic too because we're already discussing enough stuff.

Sorry but I think you showed that -with all due respect- you're a dogmatic and superficial atheist, and you make a lot of bold statements. by the way you only respond to a small part of my arguments.



DrDoomz said:
MrWayne said:

1) I don't think your question has anything to do the topic. This is not at all about legalisation.

2) No most people are exactly condeming their action. The action is not just people protesting, the action is people protesting in order to remove LGBT+ people from school books.

3) This is a overly dramatic way to describe a mandatory education system. I think mandatory education systems are a huge achievement and something very good but you seem to disagree with me.

4) Also nobody is disputing that an individual can have its own values and the possibility to pass those values on to its children. The question is who should decide how children are educated? the parents or society aka the state?

1) Mandatory education has a lot to do with legislation does it not? I know it's not ALL ABOUT legislation but legislation has something to do with this so I feel that my question was not off topic.

My point was to illustrate what people should find condmenable. We condemn actions not thoughts.

2) And I will disagree with them if it is about removing LGBT people from books.  The ones I agree with are the ones simply asking to opt out. They should have that choice.

3) When one can insert one's politics into mandatory education. You make one's politics mandatory. The fact is, I agree with the LGBT lessons being there. I disagree about it being mandatory seeing as there could be a time wherein I will disagree with the majority politics at the time and I would also want to be heard when that happens.

4) I'm sorry but the current majority does not get to decide how I raise my kids. My values may be in line with the majority atm, but that will not always be the case and when that time comes, I reserve the right to protest and let my voice be heard.

1) I worded this badly. We already established in this thread that the protest is not illegal and nobody wants it to be illegalised so the question about their thought seemed a little bit redundant/point less to me.

2) Now that's a much more interesting discussion I think. I'm against having a opt out choice. Why? Because it would be against to reason those books exist in the first place. The children whose perants don't tell them about other cultures and LGBT people or tell them bad things(sinner, molesters, etc.) are the target audience for this change in the school books.

3) But that's how school is since the beginning, it is impossible to make school unpolitical, it will always reflect the current political consensus. In a democracy you can decide what politics influence the school system.

4) You, these protesting muslims and everyone else can raise their kids as they want, at home but not at school, That's the way it is in pretty much every  western country.



Edited due to replying to wrong person. :p

Last edited by DrDoomz - on 09 June 2019

MrWayne said:
DrDoomz said:

1) Mandatory education has a lot to do with legislation does it not? I know it's not ALL ABOUT legislation but legislation has something to do with this so I feel that my question was not off topic.

My point was to illustrate what people should find condmenable. We condemn actions not thoughts.

2) And I will disagree with them if it is about removing LGBT people from books.  The ones I agree with are the ones simply asking to opt out. They should have that choice.

3) When one can insert one's politics into mandatory education. You make one's politics mandatory. The fact is, I agree with the LGBT lessons being there. I disagree about it being mandatory seeing as there could be a time wherein I will disagree with the majority politics at the time and I would also want to be heard when that happens.

4) I'm sorry but the current majority does not get to decide how I raise my kids. My values may be in line with the majority atm, but that will not always be the case and when that time comes, I reserve the right to protest and let my voice be heard.

1) I worded this badly. We already established in this thread that the protest is not illegal and nobody wants it to be illegalised so the question about their thought seemed a little bit redundant/point less to me.

2) Now that's a much more interesting discussion I think. I'm against having a opt out choice. Why? Because it would be against to reason those books exist in the first place. The children whose perants don't tell them about other cultures and LGBT people or tell them bad things(sinner, molesters, etc.) are the target audience for this change in the school books.

3) But that's how school is since the beginning, it is impossible to make school unpolitical, it will always reflect the current political consensus. In a democracy you can decide what politics influence the school system.

4) You, these protesting muslims and everyone else can raise their kids as they want, at home but not at school, That's the way it is in pretty much every  western country.

1) People condemn them for their thoughts (Islamaphobia is a thought). I feel that this is not how society should work.

2) The overall intention behind the books may be good but as the saying goes "the road to hell is paved with good intentions". This is about government telling parents how to raise their kids and forcing them to assimilate. No one should be ok with this. Are you seriously ok with giving up all your rights as a parent just so you can push one good act thru? As a father, I am not. There are way too many things government may do that I can disagree with for me to do this.

3) No, schools reflect the political consensus of the teachers/educators, not society. And the current political climate can change within a few years so while you seem to be ok with everything now, consider what would happen if the shoe was on the other foot and the protesting parents became the majority (or at least a strong enough minority to impact elections) and start pushing their political agendas in schools (considering birth and immigration rates, might not be all that far fetched). Not so attractive now is it? That is why politics should always be out of schools IMO.

4) I disagree. Plenty of schools allow their students to opt out. As far as I can see, I can see both parents AND students protesting to opt out of this class, the only ones insisting are the educators...



DrDoomz said:
Wedge said:

To counteract this... We also have the issue of who is genuinely, morally right.
And I would argue that several thousand year old values are irrelevant to today... Let alone values from even a few decades ago.

But what about the LGBT children and the bullying, harassment, missed opportunities, bigotry and so on they face? Don't they get to live a safe and happy life and be treated as equals in all aspects of society?

Being "morally right" does not make your rights superior to others.

The harassment, bullying and missed opportunities, etc. are the actions. In which case there is a clear act and a clear right being trampled on. In which case there is something we can target and condemn/punish said actors.

They have every right to a happy life, but I feel one should not have the right to force others to behave according to what makes one happy.

There is a clear delineation between "Your evil actions hurt and oppress me" and "I will oppress and hurt you because you have evil thoughts". 

I didn't say that?!? You quoted the wrong person DrDoomz