I am considering getting face and neck tattoos to look cool, stand out and be unique. Face and neck tattoos look cool on rappers and Rag N' Bone Man looks cool for their face and neck tattoos. I could not care less about being unemployable because I am already unemployable. Face and neck tattoos are good idea or not?

Yes, do it. This could be you!

Have you read my first sentence in my OG post?

And no this is not what I meant. I'll give you an example:

I'm a very light hearted guy and like to laugh and make others laugh, however when shit hits the fan I can become very serious and start look for the best possible solutions. However most of the time I don't need to take life overly serious and when females see that they immediately lose interested and deem me as weak and unmanly. So they take ONE characteristic about me and label my entire person by that characteristic.

I'm 6'2 and very muscular, I could kick the asses of most guys so I never saw the need to make myself overly serious to look tough to other men and females, so I was always confident and relaxed around people, sounds like exactly what women want right? Nope, if you like to take life and yourself not that serious when you don't need to, you are apparently a weakling.

And that was just one example of what I mean.

This makes no sense in a civilised country. Do you live in some war torn country where men need to be macho for women to feel safe lol.

Hell women used to tell me I look like i' gonna punch someone so they would not talk to me. So I started to smile sometimes lol. Even my wife said she thought the same like I wouldpunch her

@TheGamer1995

Maybe its just my naviety, but neither I nor friends and family have ever had a situation where potential partner has liked everything about someone but then claimed because of a silly factor actually rejected them AND told them this was the reason.

Because I haven't encountered this, I therefore believe its exaggerated and due to some posters in this room have now started impulsively doubting almost anything negative in this thread.

That was wrong however and I apologise, but still have to say it sucks that its actually a thing

Then you aren't doing it right. Join a Gym. Visit your GP. Get a personal trainer. See a dietician.

Up to you. To me you are a candidate that is unemployable... Not because of any reasons you have listed prior, but because of your attitude... Tattoo's won't change that.

Bullshit.
What would you assume my background is?

You are the problem. Not welfare, not having a father figure... You. Yourself. And only you.

It's not to late to pull your finger out, get on with it and make something of yourself, but making excuses isn't going to get you anywhere.

There are plenty of people who have come from questionable backgrounds and become professionals in their fields that have had others look towards for inspiration.

That's your own fault. Make a change... Set some goals, stop making excuses.

(Sorry for quoting your response to this but I'm not gonna go through and find the original comment) 

Tattoo's are not a personality. They do not make you interesting if you're not interesting. People with dyed hair and lots of tattoos that have that to make up for their entire lack of personality need to know that it doesn't work. 

Sounds like he wants to attract a tramp lol.

Honestly it be easier for him to just attract another person on the dole.

Common Traits

- Both lazy and do't want to work

- Both get free money

- Both blame the world for their troubles

- A baby will get them extra dole money

- They can live apart and get even more dole money for that baby (no need to commit 100%, just get a root here and there)

Coming from a  position of advantage: middle class or rich family, highly educated, doctors/lawyers as parents and with all the privileges in life is way easier life than being from a  ghetto or Housing project and a life on welfare. Upbringing plays a huge role in the social development and economic opportunities a person will expect in his/her life. Rich and middle class people old school tie networks lead to business and employment opportunities that poor people do not have access to.

I do not want to date someone on welfare and I do not ever want kids. I do not want to bring more losers like me into a life of poverty and struggle. I do not want to have children that do not get annual trips to Disney world, exotic travel, no private schools, no tutors and miss out out on all the luxuries in life like: jet skis, yachts, sports cars, horses, country clubs, latest fashion/clothes, ballet/dance classes, musical instruments, jewellery, etc.

1) You can do it on your own. Most people do it on your own. There is a reason why the number of people below the poverty line decrease is because people make it out of there, I made it out of there. it was hard but I did it and now I am well off. On the flip side wealth can also be lost easily. so you gotta be alert or the next day it could be gone.

2) Those are unrealistic expectations. That is the 1% of the world kind of people. No one needs all that junk anyway.  That lifestyle you describe isn't even an Aussie one. It's too American. Most Aussie with wealth don't care for such a life style. Caravan or boat plus a fishing rod with a few slabs of beer is good enough. Now if you want that kind of unrealistic expectation to come remotely true, then get off your arse and do something about it. Wishing/Dreaming for it is a waste of time.