One of the big reasons men do not pursue women like they used to is because more and more men are doing a cost/benefit analysis on the endeavor of pursuing women and they are finding it severely wanting.

Today, if you even say HI or compliment a woman in some fashion, you are liable to be charged with sexual assault or harassment, especially in the workplace. Divorce is at an all time high. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce with 60 to 90% of the divorce filings being done by the woman. Men have little to no legal recourse in family court. Many, many good men are being destroyed daily by the family court systems. Now, states are passing yes means yes laws. California is a good example of this. A woman can accuse any man of sexual assault and the guy is guilty until proven innocent.

There is a phenomenon that is known as MGTOW, which stands for Men Going Their Own Way. You are going to start seeing this philosophy gaining in popularity among men. Today, men are simply taking a step back and again, doing the cost/benefit analysis and deciding the pursuit of women to not be worth the time and effort. Men simply don't see what they gain by doing that. Yet, they do see, in real time, what they have to lose, and it is a lot. The costs far outweigh the rewards.
http://www1.cbn.com/singles/why-guys-dont-pursue

Yer but your on the dole so what is wrong with a chick on the dole for you? Set the bar at the level you are or improve your level.

It is very hard to improve my level I am stuck on welfare and I have no work history in over 10+ years. Try and apply for a job these days with 6 or 12 months out of work and it is hard to get back into work. Recruiters/employers are stricter than ever in a tighter job market and they demand all gaps to be explained, they can conduct reference/background checks on social media and Linked In. To be 10+ years out of work, too many questions are going to be asked. I have no social media and Linked In accounts, I have considered making some profiles up and trying to explain the last 10+ years with fake travel and work stories. I have no idea what work I would be capable of doing. It would have to be outdoors and active and provide work-life balance.

Which is why you need outside help from the right professional.

Let me make a couple things clear:
I do not blame women for wanting a man who has a lot of money, tall, strong and good looking, I mean why wouldn't they?
What I do however found very frustrating is how some woman go into too much expectations and if say they meet a man who meets all of their expectations except for one, then they deem that man as unqualified and unworthy even though they themselves don't offer anything special or worthy.
Basically the mainstreaming of the princess syndrome of a lot of young women.

One day when I have time, I may just draw a flow chart for you of all the actions you can take and actions you don't want to take and where they lead

Thanks Cobretti. If I can land some employment that is what I want to do and is interesting and outdoors it may help provide purpose and meaning to my life. Volunteering work may be worth doing if it is what I enjoy doing and provides purpose and meaning. Having wasted so many years doing next to nothing, I hope its not too late. There is so much pressure to become rich and famous at a young age these days and if you do not make it big on social media, Sound cloud, Instagram or Youtube you are regarded as a failure in life.

But don't guys do this as well, myself included. Why would you attempt a relationship with someone who doesn't meet your standards. Only thing that will happen with that is you end up finding someone who does while you are already in a relationship and that causes much more trouble.

Usually in real life when people say that there is one expeectation that they don't meet its usually either
1. A non negotiable 
2. More than one thing but they are just saying that for interesting/entertaining coversation and there are quite a few things

And in the case where a female is not offering anything but expecting everything, then aren't us guys at fault for entertaining them.
Personally my friendship, family group and I would not even look once at someone who had no ambition and was just on the dole, whether male or female

Being overweight/fat or skinny is physically less attractive than someone who is in better physical shape and more muscular. Being a fussy eater and into fitness I have remained relatively skinny for most of my life. Being skinny is as bad as being fat. I do not have access to steroids and can not gain a muscular physique. Only taking steroids can lead to muscular jacked physique like professional body builders in professional events like Mr Olympia and Arnold Classic.

Women don't want Mr Olympia lol.