Yes i understand what you are saying and i agree and i can also relate to him because i could think just the same like he does if people did not force me into a lot of social situations since i was a kid and while that gave me understanding and know how about these things ultimately it made me a very depressed kid for almost the enterity of my childhood and also a good way into adulthood till i accepted what i was.

And thats the thing, i do not think he has accepted what he is and that his own fear for the social structures of the masses is what is keeping him back. That fear does not go away, it is how a lot of autists their brain is wired and that cannot be changed but we can change our hope for humanity and see that theres good in the world even when we do not always belong in it.

I agree with the distance he has made from others but disagree with how he thinks about them.

Yeah of the two partners I have had I met one at Uni and the other at work. Never gone beyond a single first date with anyone I met online. 

And as someone with severe anxiety, the idea of being accused just terrifies me, like I literally have daily anxiety episodes thinking that if they wanted, both my exes could decide oneday to accuse me. Then again, I also worry daily that a headache or a new freckle means I'm dying. Anxiety sucks.

There are 3 options available for the majority of guys that are not in the top 20% of Alpha male guys.

a. Reshape your behavior and appearance to become less masculine, meaning less threatening (metrosexuality). And conform to pop culture stereotypes (primarily driven by female consumers and major indicators of what women are culturally conditioned to desire).

b. Read and internalize things like Roissy, pick up artists like Neil Strauss, and learn the psychological tricks that work on women to get them into bed (game). Cultivate a "Bad boy" image. Get some tattoos (that aren't too scary or artsy. Ed Hardy wings, stars, skulls, and flames type stuff, add some female names) and get a motorcycle.

c. Disregard females, acquire wealth.

^ Of those three options, I believe c. is the best option. Disregard females and acquire wealth. There are plenty of rich guys that have acquired huge fortunes because they did not want to share their fortunes with anyone. The other two options are not guaranteed to work either and are to focused on changing your image/appearance.

There are 3 options available for the majority of guys that are not in the top 20% of Alpha male guys.

a. Reshape your behavior and appearance to become less masculine, meaning less threatening (metrosexuality). And conform to pop culture stereotypes (primarily driven by female consumers and major indicators of what women are culturally conditioned to desire).

b. Read and internalize things like Roissy, pick up artists like Neil Strauss, and learn the psychological tricks that work on women to get them into bed (game). Cultivate a "Bad boy" image. Get some tattoos (that aren't too scary or artsy. Ed Hardy wings, stars, skulls, and flames type stuff, add some female names) and get a motorcycle.

c. Disregard females, acquire wealth.

^ Of those three options, I believe c. is the best option. Disregard females and acquire wealth. There are plenty of rich guys that have acquired huge fortunes because they did not want to share their fortunes with anyone. The other two options are not guaranteed to work either and are to focused on changing your image/appearance.

If he can take a few things out of this thread to consider i would be happy and he is partly using this for venting therapy or so i do think ;)

It does not bother me and i do not think he does a lot wrong with this.