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So, this is a topic that has profoundly troubled me for a while. I do have sexual desires, which I currently relieve through masturbation. However, it's hard to do that through thoughts alone, so I tend to use pornographic material too while doing that. Now, this is where the problem lies. The pornographic industry is not the happiest place at all, far from it in fact. Porn stars have a pretty high suicide rate and lower life-expectancy. This highlights the general unhappiness that porn stars have, and it makes it very hard to consciously watch porn without thinking of the working conditions and relationships, how dehumanizing it must be to have a job like that and the normalization of sex that makes it hard to fully enjoy it.

So, what I tend to do frequently is use fictional media instead, mainly hentai (in the forms of anime and doujinshi), as since they're fictional characters it is impossible for them to be truly hurt/exploited. However, I can understand that for others it's hard to do it, and even for me I tend to shuffle things up in order to be able to stay aroused and avoid desensitization. So, there has to be a happy medium. I myself try very hard to not have pornography affect my views and treatment of women, and I hope that I have maintained that. But I was also curious on your guys' thoughts and perspectives on the matter.



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You don't.



Ask your mom



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Get laid?



The real question is, would you fap to a video with a porn actress that you know is dead?



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OTBWY said:
The real question is, would you fap to a video with a porn actress that you know is dead?

During the filming or just an old video?



 "I think people should define the word crap" - Kirby007

Join the Prediction League http://www.vgchartz.com/predictions

Instead of seeking to convince others, we can be open to changing our own minds, and seek out information that contradicts our own steadfast point of view. Maybe it’ll turn out that those who disagree with you actually have a solid grasp of the facts. There’s a slight possibility that, after all, you’re the one who’s wrong.

bananaking21 said:
Get laid?

Nah, I don't feel like going through the hassle of doing that at the moment

OTBWY said:
The real question is, would you fap to a video with a porn actress that you know is dead?

I don't mean actresses that are dead, I mean actresses in the industry in general.



VGPolyglot said:
bananaking21 said:
Get laid?

Nah, I don't feel like going through the hassle of doing that at the moment

OTBWY said:
The real question is, would you fap to a video with a porn actress that you know is dead?

I don't mean actresses that are dead, I mean actresses in the industry in general.

Are you saying that having sex with a woman is a "hassle?"



You could go for some camgirl site and give some money, makes everybody happy.

In the end you need a partner, no substitute around that in the long run.



"Do not be deceived; God is not mocked: for whatever a man sows, that he shall also reap. Gal 6:7





The Bible tells us that in one day God struck 23,000 fornicators dead and He is doing the same thing to immoral people today:



Neither let us commit fornication, as some of them

committed, and in one day twenty three thousand fell. 1Co 10:8



Becoming involved with pornography will bring God’s judgment upon you. Learn from the mistake of these men and women and do not allow their fate to become yours.



Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God

comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them. Eph 5:6-7"

nice source VGP