To elaborate on my previous post:
There's not much more you can do to increase stability through same-network streaming aside from plugging in with a cable. They'll just have to live with being equal.
As far as over the internet is concerned, Sony has an actual case to present, whereas Microsoft is restricted to same-network only.
Before you start questioning the PlayStation's online Remote Play, I can attest to its reliability: I bring my daughter to my mother's once a week so they can spend time together (my mother may not be here to see her grow up, so I want them to spend as much time together as possible). This is an hour away, and packing up my PS4 to take with me everytime is a major hassle. Instead, I Remote Play on my Vita, and wow, it works. But only on the Vita, for some reason. PSTV and Android don't seem to run as well, but on Vita I'm capable of running group chat in the background and play multiplayer on Dark Souls 2 with about a quarter second latency. And THAT is impressive to me.