For those of you who say churches are judgemental and only tell us what we can and can't do, not all of them are.
Jesus never went around preaching against sin and trying to make people feel bad, in fact, it was just the opposite. His favorite people to hang around with were the sinners, tax collectors, etc. The people he had the most problem with were the 'Religious' ones who judged people and looked at themselves as superior. He taught a better way to live that's not a miserable, boring, restricted life, but one of freedom FROM sin, not bondage to rules. Jesus freed people from sin by showing them the right way to live and by loving them, not by talking down to them and trying to make them feel guilty. There's a big difference there.
That being said, I've been to a few services that were rules-based, judgemental, etc, and if that's all I'd ever experienced, I'd probably hate church too .
Edit: To those of you who hate Religion for the reasons I mentioned above, If you forget all the stuff you've heard in religious services (if you've only been to those kinds of services), or the stereotypes of Christianity today and just read about Jesus directly from the Bible, you'll find he, and the original intention of 'The Church' are quite different than what you might think.