Going through the manufacturers PR there's quite a bit of data amongst the spin. I'll start with the current gen consoles:

Current Gen Total Revenue:

360: $332m (39%)
WII: $283m (33%)
PS3: $235m (28%)

TTL: $850m (100%)

Current Gen Hardware Units:

WII: 432k (45%)
PS3: 280.8k (29%)
360: 254.6k (26%)

TTL: 967.4k

Current Gen Software Units:

WII: 2.9m
PS3:
360:

TTL:

Current Gen Accessory Units:

WII: 1.7m
PS3:
360:

TTL:

Current Gen Hardware Revenue:

WII:
PS3:
360: $91m [Av $357/System]

Totl:

Current Gen Software Revenue:

360: $184m (45%)
WII: $130m (32%) [Av $45/Game]
PS3: $97m  (24%)

TTL: $411m (100%)

Current Gen Accessory Revenue:

360: $57m
WII:
PS3:

TTL:

Current Gen Hardware Installed Base:

360: 9.6m (45%)
Wii: 8.1m (38%)
PS3: 3.8m (18%)

TTL: 21.5m (100%)

Software Revenue Attach Rate:

PS3: $25.53
360: $19.17
Wii: $16.05

Now data by manufacturer:

Total: Console Market: $1329m

Hardware: $479m (2.15m units)
Software: $669m
Accessory: $181m

Manufacturer Total Revenue:

Sony: $511m (38%)
Nint: $482m (36%)
Msft: $336m (25%)

Totl: $1329m (100%)

Manufacturer Hardware Units:

Nint: 1019k (47%)
Sony:  876k (41%)
Msft:  255k (12%)

Totl: 2.15m

Manufacturer Software Units:

Nint: 6.5m
Sony: 
Msft: 

Totl:

Manufacturer Accessory Units:

Nint: 2.9m
Sony: 
Msft: 

Totl:

Manufacturer Hardware Revenue:

Sony: $204m (43%)
Nint: $184m (38%)
Msft:  $91m (19%)

Totl: $479m (100%)

Manufacturer Software Revenue:

Sony: $247m (37%)
Nint: $235m (35%)
MSft: $187m (28%)

Totl: $669m (100%)

Manufacturer Accessory Revenue:

Nint: $63m (35%)
Sony: $60m (33%)
Msft: $57m (31%)
 
Totl: $181m (100%)

Later I'll post DS,PSP,PS2, and even some Xbox data here.

wait how did 360 make more than ps3 in revenue when 360 costs less and it sold less?

Software and accessories.

Is this only including the top 10 software?

No, this is total software (hardware and accessories too).

Sorry, have to leave now, so can't answer anymore questions.

Those numbers show that PS3 is selling software and isn't being bought as Blu-ray player exclusivly by to many people. Compared to it's userbase (18% of this gen market) PS3 owners in fact spend most money on software (24% of this-gen market).