Slade6alpha said:
Shinobi-san said:
Maybe im dumb but I dont see what the figure of speech is there? I do not want every thread to become a shitstorm. I do not want every thread to devolve into a back and forth. I do not want to see trash talking in every thread. I hope thats clear.
I dont know what the solution is, i was just giving some suggestions as others have. But i do feel there is a problem, and i always have, way before the PS guys even left.
I most certainly dont feel welcome in the XBE thread :P And boy do they make it known XD Even worse now that im a mod. That doesnt mean i have beef with it or any of the posters in there :) Again thats you projecting it on to me. Not feeling welcome and having beef is something completely different. If i had beef with certain groups of users then i should most likely not be a mod in the first place. I feel as though i have put that behind me, if others choose to carry on with "beef" or dislike me then thats on them.
That also doesnt mean i cant have an opinion on the Nation thread, and draw on my personal experience both as a user and a mod to formulate that opinion.
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If you don't feel welcome in Xbox Empire that's your own thing and not ours. And how do we make it known?
I honestly don't remember you that much in Empire except that ONE issue. You got upset about how I interpreted Angry Joe's video on Tomb Raider and a moderator told you to drop discussion, then you perma banned yourself shortly there after. So shouldn't you have had issues with the mod team? and not us?
You're free to post anywhere as is everyone else on any part of this forum.
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Absolutely im free to post anywhere, that doesnt mean i feel welcome to post anywhere.
I actively posted in the Empire thread prior to that incident, in what you might say is a positive manner (afterall i was discussing games i was hyped for) and during that period i had a positive experience. If you would like me to send you links then i will do that.
I then stopped for while and returned to discuss the Tomd Raider topic, thats when i saw your post and replied since i disagreed with how you presented joe's view (and i certainly wasnt upset at this point). Here is my reply to you, i dont think it was an aggresive post and it doesnt seem like im upset http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6579013
Some people flat out disregarded my post choosing not to discuss any of the points i raised. Simply saying http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6579053 or making this about who to trust more...http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6579134 i wasnt saying trust me i was simply saying decide for yourself.
I kindly asked Jay to not get into a tit for tat debate, as we have never seen eye to eye. The mods reacted, which i did not agree with http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6579185 and i made it known to them at the time. This post which appeared to be directed towards me at the time (at least this turned out to be a joke). Keep in mind my post and that i was in no way confrontational at all at this point.
Then the insults came http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6579956 how my post warranted that response is beyond me.
I then replied to your post again, a different one. Keep in mind you still havent replied to me http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6581347 still not upset, not confrontational. I then get told to drop the subject. http://gamrconnect.vgchartz.com/post.php?id=6581353
Now why drop the subject? Considering that this was all the buzz at the time and not even a day had passed. I only actually made two posts on the topic. Most likely because it was a viewpoint that differed from everyone elses in the thread. I didnt insult, flame or troll anyone.
Cone then adds in to drop the subject, trying to cool things down. Yet i was cool. Again i didnt agree with this and i told cone that at the time.
Now if this is the type of discussion people want to be "safe" from then i cannot agree to it in any sense. I am only one person with one incident. I've seen this happen to many people in all nation threads (except nintendo one, which ive never been in), people who raise legitimate points get shut down, told to drop it, asked to not participate in the thread or in a more subtle way flat out ignored. This is intolerance and i dont agree with it.
Personally i do not feel that this is okay in any way and imo nation threads, ALL nation threads, perpetuate this type of behavior more so than normal.
Heres the important thing though....
Is this the be all end all to why i feel the way i do? Absolutely not. I've raised many points in my initial post, as have other users in this thread, all who do not have my experience, and thank god for that. Do i have "beef" with the users who replied/didnt reply to me that day? Absolutely not. A lot of those users are great users who i actually thought i got along with at one stage :) But i do feel that the way the nation threads are setup it is only natural that certain discussions will end up like that, that people who have different views from the norm will get targeted in a way.
Does this mean that everytime someone goes into a nation thread and disagrees the same thing happens? Nope. I've raised differing views before in that very thread and it was discussed healthily.