I don't hate them. We just have different customs and culture. I was watching a documentary not too long ago on how Japanese Males work like 50-60+ work weeks so they need gaming on the go. Since they work so much, they are also interested in games that connect them to other people (especially the opposite sex). Also, females in Japanese culture aren't as free as females in the west. They are still all about taking care of the man, having the food ready when he comes home and taking care of the kids etc.
This being said it makes total sense why many games don't sell in Japan and why consoles are just dying in general. Only hardcore gamers buy games like Bayonetta over there, for the average consumer in Japan just doesn't have the time to put hours in beating a game at home.
Again, this is just according to the documentary I saw. If you really ask me, I have something against FPS genre... but that's a story for a different thread... 