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Mr Khan said:
NiKKoM said:
Mr Khan said:
trashleg said:
" waiting"

Also, waffles.

mr khans stuff to do

So i've got a shitton of stuff going on right now with or without her.


Geez man.. Its not about literally doing stuff.  its about waiting in love.. Act, stand up, hunt her actively, get a gameplan together. Waching korra is waiting in love, playing smash is waiting in love.. Become the Hunter

Okay, misinterpreted that

For better or worse, Thanksgiving does stand in the way in the short run. However, i'll be sure to further things in the span between Thanksgiving and Christmas (or attempt to, it's also finals week when work comes crashing down on all of us, me and her alike)


NikkoM's interpretation is literally the exact opposite of what I meant >____<

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What I meant, anyway, is that you just keep doing your usual stuff and if it's gonna work out, it needs to work out around your schedule as well as hers, not just you trying to fill in whatever gap she has in her timetable or whatever. I'm not saying you aren't gonna be on top of that, but changing your routine/your walk home/etc just in case you bump into her, don't do that. Just you be you, and don't lose sight of the things that make you awesome. It's good that you have all that stuff that you wanna do. 

(speaking from experience, of course. Forgive me if I sound morose) :D



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
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trashleg said:


NikkoM's interpretation is literally the exact opposite of what I meant >____<

Khan 1 - 0 NikkoM

What I meant, anyway, is that you just keep doing your usual stuff and if it's gonna work out, it needs to work out around your schedule as well as hers, not just you trying to fill in whatever gap she has in her timetable or whatever. I'm not saying you aren't gonna be on top of that, but changing your routine/your walk home/etc just in case you bump into her, don't do that. Just you be you, and don't lose sight of the things that make you awesome. It's good that you have all that stuff that you wanna do. 

(speaking from experience, of course. Forgive me if I sound morose) :D


Then you clearly misinterperted the text... Its clearly about fast moving hunters and sheeps who wait.. The arriving too soon bit is a metaphore for people who wait..



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

36 hours in and she hasn't even seen it (my re-request for her number since i lost it)

Hindsight, i should have emailed her (THIS ONE TIME), because i know she uses that more. Now i must wait so as not to seem too desperate, especially since i really have no need for her number in the time between now and when i would next see her again (which due to the holidays is about 11 days, actually )



Monster Hunter: pissing me off since 2010.

NiKKoM said:


Then you clearly misinterperted the text... Its clearly about fast moving hunters and sheeps who wait.. The arriving too soon bit is a metaphore for people who wait..

Not sure if you're trying to troll me but it's from a longer article, written by a guy about his lvoe experiences and in the context, I'm 100% sure it's about actually waiting. 

If you've ever been "that one" in the relationship, the one waiting for a call, for a text back, for your partner to turn up hours late, you'd understand :3



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
trashleg said:

Not sure if you're trying to troll me but it's from a longer article, written by a guy about his lvoe experiences and in the context, I'm 100% sure it's about actually waiting. 

If you've ever been "that one" in the relationship, the one waiting for a call, for a text back, for your partner to turn up hours late, you'd understand :3

Ow i have been the waiting one.. But i didn't like it, for hurt and decided after that, that i don't wanna be the waiting one.. To be powerless.. I wanted to have more control, To be desired, stop wasting time in what if and when.. Not being afraid to be rejected.. To be Patrick Swayze



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

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NiKKoM said:

Ow i have been the waiting one.. But i didn't like it, for hurt and decided after that, that i don't wanna be the waiting one.. To be powerless.. I wanted to have more control, To be desired, stop wasting time in what if and when.. Not being afraid to be rejected.. To be Patrick Swayze


Yeah it sucks, huh? I'm never falling in love again



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.

Goddamn she never uses that account.

My roommate says i could get around that by emailing her and asking if we could meet before monday night (when she leaves for Thanksgiving), and using that as a vehicle to ask her number, but that feels a bit forward.

I do have a guess as to what the middle three numbers are (she's in my contacts list right now, with a placeholder number that has the right area code and last four digits, but there are a few hundred options for the middle three), so i could perhaps just try texting her, although that could lead up a dangerously obsessive road.



Monster Hunter: pissing me off since 2010.

Geez man.. Its the weekend. I also try to ignore the internet in the weekend.. I'm only here on the site cause my trashleg warninglight went of.. Relax.. We can smell the desperation.. She'll get you her number.. And then you send: "Enjoy your thanksgiving".. What in the world were you gonna do with her before monday night? You're turning into a clingy guy who after one drink thinks they are meant to be together..



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

trashleg said:


Yeah it sucks, huh? I'm never falling in love again


Always fall in love! But make sure the other one also falls in love with you! Never waste energy into a one sided relationship! It takes two people to do this:

Don't go in a relationship if you don't believe the other one will ever be able to lift you up



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

NiKKoM said:
Geez man.. Its the weekend. I also try to ignore the internet in the weekend.. I'm only here on the site cause my trashleg warninglight went of.. Relax.. We can smell the desperation.. She'll get you her number.. And then you send: "Enjoy your thanksgiving".. What in the world were you gonna do with her before monday night? You're turning into a clingy guy who after one drink thinks they are meant to be together..

I know :-/

I wasn't thrilled by the advice myself, but my roommate has had no trouble getting girls even in my short time living here, so there's some weight to his advice.

Haven't taken the advice either. Waiting's just hard, you know?

No more posts from me until i've got the number, certainly.



Monster Hunter: pissing me off since 2010.