on topic: the only advantage worth noting in this comparison is speed.
it says the ps3 version is faster, and in a car racing game, thats big.

Even if Sony just came out with a mini-USB headset that worked with the Sixaxis, I would be happy.

Not everything needs to be wireless, Sony. After all, this isn't like a phone where I put down the phone and drive while I talk on the headset. I have to have the controller in my hands, after all. It makes sense to tether the headset to the controller and remove any worries about battery life/charging the headset.

Not to mention that BT headsets are not made for the type of marathon sessions that gamers often use them for. They're made for infrequent, short-term use, like phone calls.

i havent actually seen an xbox live battle with mics.
though i have experienced steam and psn.
so can you fill me in?

are people mature while they play?
do they keep cussing eveytime they die?
do some people create random annoying noises?

from my experience most mature players play on steam, and psn is full of cussing 14 yr olds.

XBL has its fair share of mental midgets.

Just like any other online game I have played with voice chat, everything depends on you finding the right group of people. Counter-Strike, UT, WoW, XBL, PSN, they're all the same... Full of retards in pubs but if you search around a bit, you can find a mature group that's fun to hang with.

counterstrike, i rarely hear any "mental midgets"( )
on my short time on TF2, same as above
Cod4, Infested
UT3, rarely
Warhawk, moderate

been playing cod4 online for the past 5 days, and everytime, i mean everytime,
there are people that wont stop making random noises, there are a lot of them too. ive even experience a woman actually shout "shut up! shut up! you suck dick at this game" after which everyone did shut up .

 You dont understand, using the PS3 as the lead platform ends up making a better gamefor the 360 then having the 360 as the lead platform. The problem is companies spend their time making a good 360 game and when its time to port, they dont want to completely redesign the game for it to be its best on the PS3.

For developers its alot easier to start out big and port down to small, instead of starting out small and going big with a game.  So that's why you see all the shitty ports on PS3, they were all designed for the 360, and had a rough transition to the Cell.

i see where youre coming from but your "how long until then" is already happening on xbox to ps ports.
madden for one. there is no guaratee that the ps3 will become every 3rd party developer's developing platform.

this would only change if the ps3 trounces the xbox on sales, and from VG's data thats not happening yet.
sure ps3 is starting to cover some ground, but its still way too small.

While I agree this is good for multiplatform releases cause they will start looking better on the PS3, it's also a possible good thing for Microsoft. A 3rd party exclusive that doesn't break even on the PS3 could then be ported to the 360 with little fuss, minor differences, and a bigger userbase.

I can see wins on both sides of the fence. 

its kinda like a curb grading

multi platform game graphics arent gonna be that big of a difference