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Do you think Homosexuality can be cured?

WHAT?? You can't cure it. 61 31.77%
 
You Can't, Homosexuality is a Choice 9 4.69%
 
No, it's just a matter o... 39 20.31%
 
Yes, Through Psychological/Social Therapy 19 9.90%
 
Yes, Through Drugs, It's... 8 4.17%
 
Yes, though Genetic Modifications 9 4.69%
 
Yes, though Drugs & T... 6 3.13%
 
I'm not sure 8 4.17%
 
See Results 33 17.19%
 
Total:192

Well, at least the two posters above had the good grace to take this directly to the gutter and not dress it up as reasonable thinking.



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Michael-5 said:
fordy said:
Michael-5 said:


I agree with you, lol. You are a logical thinker.

Now this brings the question, which is worse? A community without a cure for homosexuality, which oppresses ALL of the homosexuals who wish to live heterosexual lifestlyes, or a community with a cure, which oppresses SOME homosexuals into "cure" themselves?

 

I know in Canada, we would never resort to the second option, but I bet in the Middle East, this would be an immediate law.


Out of those two? the first is probably the worst, but to both options in general? The community is wrong in both of them.

No arguement here, we don't live in a perfect world.

Now why is my opinion viewed as horrific by many people on VGC? Why are people so bothered by the fact that some people see homosexuality as a condition/disorder, which we should continue to look for a cure for? I mean there are homosexuals who wish to be heterosexuals, there's no arguing here, but are people so pro-gay that they have managed to forget about the gay people who are opressed by being gay?

I feel that many people here don't look beyond the contraversy and are too held up in the politics.

fordy said:

Don't get me wrong. I do agree that the outright majority of cases for said conditions need treatment, as they provide no benefit at all to the person. I'm just saying in some rare cases, said conditions can provide benefits and insight into things that others oversee, another perspective on things. 

Indeed, if it's having a negative impact on one's own, then I'm one of the first to strongly suggest to seek treatment.

 

EDIT: Vincent van Gough had bipolar. I think many would see the effects of that through his works (including the one on himself).

Okay....... I understand where your coming from. Had you presented this arguement to most people here, they would heckle you, as I am being heckled now.

I agree with you, but where do you draw the line? Most Bi-Polar individuals who refuse treatment, probably need it. Van Gough was an exception as his condition was a sacrifice which he made in order to paint such excellent art, however it's not a worthy sacrifice to allow people to even consider remaining bi-polar, even to pursue artistic lifestlyes. More often then no, the sacrifices are not worth the result.

If there were a permanent cure to Bi-Polar, I would still make this one Mandatory (I wouldn't make any homosexual drugs mandatory). I think a world with no bi polars, and a few less paintings is a better one where people have the option to take medication, and we still see tragedies in the few cases where people don't, and can't manage themselves.


The difference is (in your albinoism example earlier), that Albinos would probably choose based on medical conditions. If an albino chose to become "normal" because he was being outcast by society, then I see that as society's fault. Same with homosexuality. Unfortuntely, the majority of homosexuals who want to be hetero do it because of outside influence, or opression from society, since there really is little to no medical reason to change from becoming homosexual. It's generally a push from society into forcing people into a narrow view, and that only has a negative impact on diversity. I'd love to hear your thoughts on my suffrage example, since we are in similar times with homosexuality. If there were something to turn women into men at the times when suffrage was being debated, would it have affected the rights of women? The difference is, something would be enacted to keep women as women (because no women = no new generation), but I wouldn't see anything smiliar occuring if homosexuals gave up their fight for equal power and became heterosexual.

Unfortunately you cannot draw a line in this situation. Forcibly administering treatment goes against personal liberties, but if the individual is a danger to those around them, it is negligent to let said person make the first move and possibly murder somebody before treatment is administered. then there's other possibilities such as lifestyle changes that could help control conditions. I wouldn't go as far as making any treatment mandatory, but something would need to be devised on when treatment should be administered against individual consent (and not be abused, like giving a legitimate reason to administer treatment for homosexuality).



Gribble said:

By stating that homosexuality could be cured, you are saying that it IS a problem when in fact it's just part of this diverse and wonderful world we live in. 'If it's your choice, we can change it.' Yeah, because homosexuals simply wake up one day and pick who they want to love. 'If it's something that's been put onto you, we can change that.' Because they are there in the shadows with sharp teeth, preying on unsuspecting heterosexuals. 

'Does that mean I want to change it? No, I think it's perfectly fine'. How big of you.

Should we cure heterosexuality? After reading through this thread, without a doubt.

'How is wanting a cure for homosexuality any different from wanting a cure for Albinoism'

Jesus H Christ!

You took my comments in a completely wrong direction. Please at least take note of what I've said in this thread before you try to judge me. If you read any of my other posts you would, hopefully, know that I'm not against Homosexuality in any way shape or form. I'm all for those type of people. They hurt no one and they are exactly like us, other than the obvious sexuality choices which, again, I don't mind.

Edit: Are you not going to answer me? OK.



Gribble said:
Jay520 said:
Michael-5 said:
Boutros said:
Wanting a "cure" for homosexuality sends a message that there's something wrong with being homosexual. We're in 2013 and that kind of mentality should not exist anymore.

How is wanting a cure for homosexuality any different from wanting a cure for Albinoism? There is nothing wrong with being Albino, but I'm sure some Albino people want to be able to go out and not burn with any sun exposure.

It's an acceptible condition, one outside the control of the individual, but it's still a condition. Something is still "wrong" with people like this.

At least I see no difference. Seeing something as a disorder (which most scientists still think it is), but accepting it is exactly the mentality people should have.

Just accepting people with disorders without any consideration of those who wish they didn't have it, is selfish IMO



I thought we've been over this? It's not a disorder UNLESS the person is unhappy with his or her sexuality. If the person is happy, then there is no disorder.

The only reason a homosexual would be unhappy with his/her sexuality is because of pressure from society. Even entertaining the idea that some homosexuals may be unhappy being that way is homophobic. Don't you understand that? It's homophobia that needs to be dealt with, not homosexuality. The result of the poll shows quite clearly how narrow minded and uneducated people are on the matter of sexual orientation and love.



Many homosexuals (particularly religious) are ashamed of their orientation because they don't think it's "right." These people may or may not be very prevalent. Regardless, these are the only people who I can understand wanting a "cure" and labelling their orientation as a disorder. For others, its not a disorder.

Boutros said:
Michael-5 said:
Boutros said:
Wanting a "cure" for homosexuality sends a message that there's something wrong with being homosexual. We're in 2013 and that kind of mentality should not exist anymore.

How is wanting a cure for homosexuality any different from wanting a cure for Albinoism? There is nothing wrong with being Albino, but I'm sure some Albino people want to be able to go out and not burn with any sun exposure.

It's an acceptible condition, one outside the control of the individual, but it's still a condition. Something is still "wrong" with people like this.

At least I see no difference. Seeing something as a disorder (which most scientists still think it is), but accepting it is exactly the mentality people should have.

Just accepting people with disorders without any consideration of those who wish they didn't have it, is selfish IMO

Don't you think that what should be cured isn't the actual sexual orientation but the negative perception people have of homosexuality?

Imagine a vaccine that would make all those unhappy homosexuals accept who they are instead of changing who they are.

That's the best option if you really want to be proactive.

Actually, how about an "intolerance cure" to use on people who find themselves hating on people like homosexuals for no logical reason?



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Euphoria14 said:
I say back the fuck off and let people live the lives they want. Who are any of you to tell someone how they should live their lives?

My brother ( changed his name legally to a female name) has been dressing in girls clothing since he was 4 hasn't change at all. I take that as him being who he/she is, and nobodys bullshit religious and/or scientific view will ever change that. He is who he is and nobody's bullshit reasoning will EVER change that.

Leave them be and worry about your own problems, because we all know damn well, you're not as perfect as you might think.

I'm not telling people how to live their lives, but you are. I'm saying why not change the people who with to be changed, but you're saying all people born homosexual MUST stay homosexual?

Who's restricting the individuals freedoms here?

Euphoria14 said:
By the way, reading this thread has truly worried me. My little girl is left handed.

Anyone hits her for that and I I'll gladly go to jail for kicking the shit out of them.

Yeah, she is left handed, but she far ahead of the rest of her class and and her teachers have repeatedly told me such.

Why would anyone hit your left handed sister? Having violent people in the community who want to physically harm left handed or homosexual individuals is a completly different issue then being Left Handed and wanting to be Right Handed, or being Gay and wanting to be straight.

I agree with you, we need to accept gay people the way we accept left handed people, and we definatly need to punish those who want to harm these people.




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Can being gay be cured? Nope. Well not yet anyway.

Should this condition be cured if it ever becomes possible?
Well yh, it should to be honest. Of course unless the person is a full grown adult and does not want the streatment.

With that said, I don't have issues with gays. Like I don't haave issues with anyone with any other medical condition like adhd.



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twilit said:
Boutros said:
Wanting a "cure" for homosexuality sends a message that there's something wrong with being homosexual. We're in 2013 and that kind of mentality should not exist anymore.

This is basically what it comes down to. "Is homosexuality a disorder?" That such a loaded statement that only serves to justify stigma towards gay people. Most mainstream scientific organizations have evolved past calling homosexuality a mental disorder.

@Michael-5

As you have pointed out in his other threads, the decision was politically motivated, but that really doesn't make it wrong. Homosexuality was included in the DSM in the first place because people claimed it constituted as pathological behaviour despite the fact that the science wasn't really there. The studies that were done wer almost all methodolically weak and unreliable, to say the least.

Stop comparing it to schizophrenia, they are nowhere close to the same thing. Instead Fordy was right in comparing it to introversion. Introversion has been proposed to be added in the DSM multiple times, and it should fit your definition rather well: introversion is a disposition that is both statistically uncommon and inherently takes away chances for communication and establishing new (sexual or platonic) relationships. Would you call introversion a disorder?

As per the op, no I do not think homosexuality needs to be cured, nor should it be. Being gay should not have anything to do with pathology. If you really want to help gay people, instead of finding a cure, it is better to fix homophobia and the social stigma surrounding homosexuality, which does harm people. I can tell you from personal experience, thinking about hot guys is good - by definition being gay is about being comfortable with having a relationship with someone of the same sex - but being stigmatised for it sucks, nothing about being gay in itself is harmful (except in the very specific case of procreation, but we have options for that now).



Excellent post. I pretty much agree with this. Though I'd like to add that while I don't think introversion is a disorder, I do believe people should have the opportunity to change themselves to extroverts if they want. Same goes for homosexuality. Sure, some people may not be happy with it and some may want to change, but that doesn't mean it should be labelled a disorder.

fordy said:


The difference is (in your albinoism example earlier), that Albinos would probably choose based on medical conditions. If an albino chose to become "normal" because he was being outcast by society, then I see that as society's fault. Same with homosexuality. Unfortuntely, the majority of homosexuals who want to be hetero do it because of outside influence, or opression from society, since there really is little to no medical reason to change from becoming homosexual. It's generally a push from society into forcing people into a narrow view, and that only has a negative impact on diversity. I'd love to hear your thoughts on my suffrage example, since we are in similar times with homosexuality. If there were something to turn women into men at the times when suffrage was being debated, would it have affected the rights of women? The difference is, something would be enacted to keep women as women (because no women = no new generation), but I wouldn't see anything smiliar occuring if homosexuals gave up their fight for equal power and became heterosexual.

Unfortunately you cannot draw a line in this situation. Forcibly administering treatment goes against personal liberties, but if the individual is a danger to those around them, it is negligent to let said person make the first move and possibly murder somebody before treatment is administered. then there's other possibilities such as lifestyle changes that could help control conditions. I wouldn't go as far as making any treatment mandatory, but something would need to be devised on when treatment should be administered against individual consent (and not be abused, like giving a legitimate reason to administer treatment for homosexuality).

Well, you're right, comparing homosexuality to albinoism isn't fair because most Albino's probably want to be "cured" where only a fraction (won't even debate the size) of homosexuals want to be....normalized (be a part of the heterosexual normal, the average). However your sufferage example would be hard to explain to people, and most people would just ignore it and say " He's Anit-Gay."

Aside: Heck, people have been turning what I have to say around all though this debate because they don;t understand, or don;t both to read my comments. For example, I don't believe there is a Gay Gene, but in the other thread, almost every response (especially from this one guy Tom3K) started off with "There is no Gay Gene!" and then an arguement was presented. Who are they arguing with?

On Topic: With your suffrage example....I don't think people should be able to change their genders, but in this day and age, we're letting a lot of freaks do whatever they want and accepting it. Regardless, this is different from being a homosexual because in the sufforage example, those women who became gay are doing it for voting rights. Remaining homosexual, or conterting to be a heterosexual gains you no marriage rights (In Canada), no voting rights, no diability rights, no tax breaks, nothing.

 

As for your coments on forced treatment for homosexuality, well....what can you say? When is homosexuality ever dangerous? If a homosexual is being abused, I think the problem is the abuser, not the homosexual. I don't see any condition where we should force an individual to live a heterosexual life.



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twilit said:
Boutros said:
Wanting a "cure" for homosexuality sends a message that there's something wrong with being homosexual. We're in 2013 and that kind of mentality should not exist anymore.

This is basically what it comes down to. "Is homosexuality a disorder?" That such a loaded statement that only serves to justify stigma towards gay people. Most mainstream scientific organizations have evolved past calling homosexuality a mental disorder.

@Michael-5

As you have pointed out in his other threads, the decision was politically motivated, but that really doesn't make it wrong. Homosexuality was included in the DSM in the first place because people claimed it constituted as pathological behaviour despite the fact that the science wasn't really there. The studies that were done wer almost all methodolically weak and unreliable, to say the least.

Stop comparing it to schizophrenia, they are nowhere close to the same thing. Instead Fordy was right in comparing it to introversion. Introversion has been proposed to be added in the DSM multiple times, and it should fit your definition rather well: introversion is a disposition that is both statistically uncommon and inherently takes away chances for communication and establishing new (sexual or platonic) relationships. Would you call introversion a disorder?

As per the op, no I do not think homosexuality needs to be cured, nor should it be. Being gay should not have anything to do with pathology. If you really want to help gay people, instead of finding a cure, it is better to fix homophobia and the social stigma surrounding homosexuality, which does harm people. I can tell you from personal experience, thinking about hot guys is good - by definition being gay is about being comfortable with having a relationship with someone of the same sex - but being stigmatised for it sucks, nothing about being gay in itself is harmful (except in the very specific case of procreation, but we have options for that now).

Yes, I can see what you mean about calling it a disorder. Look at how much anti-anti-gay hate I'm getting LOL. However whatever you call it, should heterosexuals be this sensitive to the termonology used for the "genetic disturbance" known as homosexuality?

I don't know enough about introversion to call it anything. If it were to be a disorder, it would be psychological in nature would it not? Homosexuality is biological in origin is it not?

 

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LOL

This is a funny comparision, but say homosexuality is caused by the interaction of various different genes via Epi markers, and that a combination of these genes causes homosexuality. Well.....Isn't that how Mules are made? Isn't a mule the genetic outcome between a Female Horse, and a Male Donkey? It's not a species on it's own, and it's genes are just a mixture of Donkey and Horse genes are they not? However these genese interact to make a Mule.

Is a Mule wrong? No, but it is the result of a biological disturbance isn't it? If Mules could talk and had the same rights as Humans, then if a Mule wants to become a Horse or a Donkey, why stop it? While there is nothing wrong with being a Mule, there are benefits to being the normal Donkey/Horse. a) Reproduction b) Specieis Status (Your normal in a sense). This is kinda the same as being a Homo.

-Gay People, is this a better arguement for being biologically disturbed? or should I just compare you to Albino people?


I agree it's just as important to cure homophobea then homosexuality, but have I ever stated otherwise? "Curing" Homosexualism is still just as relevent and making it culturally acceptable.



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