Maybe it's just me, but if a developer insists on 8gb Ram there is probably a plan in place to use it. It's not just Crytek, but Epic and Dice I believe have also requested it, and I'm certain CDPR, Bethesda, EA, Activision, Ubisoft etc would all welcome it.
Like anything, if you make it available, good developers will use it, great developers will take advantage of it.
All of this should they/shouldn't they argument doesn't make sense to me, of course they should!