happydolphin said:
Dodece said:
Marucha said:
Dodece said:
Look there is nothing wrong with having faith in things. As long as you are honest with yourself. If you are making a choice to believe in something that isn't supported by fact or reason. There isn't something insidious about copping to what you are doing. If you have an emotional need for something, and embrace something to give your life some greater meaning. I don't think anyone is particularly troubled by that. The real problem is when people decide to be disingenuous about what they are doing.
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I have been avoiding your remarks because I feel your comments come under the pressure of wanting to force an opinion, not to reason with... the only thing I have to say is you're making a mistake by assuming other people's reasoning and state of mind with your comments. You have asked for something that is very reasonable and respectable (the underlined), but then suddenly you are telling people that when they do, they are doing it out of emotional need. You have determined their purpose for them. This is your assumption based off of an observation... it's not proven fact, but you've disguised an opinion as fact. I do believe there is greater purpose in life than just doing things out of simple emotional need. These are my values. It's not as cut and dry for me as I do it out of emotional need. Many things have happened in my life that have altered the way I perceive things and how I view the spiritual. Your opinion may completely differ and that's fine, I totally respect that and hats off if your life has taken you somewhere else... but your request is a trap to get people to conform to your point of view of religion/spirituality. It's not reasonable. It comes with strings attached that are borderline demeaning to someone who truly has a different take on life than you.
Edit: I edited some.
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All choices are fundamentally emotional in nature. If not in the immediate act. Most assuredly in the root cause. To deny this is to deny your very nature. This is the reality of our lives. We do things to make ourselves feel good, and avoid things that make us feel bad. The only reason we make choices or take actions is to further this goal. This is our primary motivator imparted on us by nature to perpetuate our existence, and the existence of our species. Without emotional need we wouldn't do anything at all. We would just lay down on the ground and die. Unless you can provide some evidence that your choice of faith isn't imbued with a emotional context. Then your argument doesn't have any merit.
You believe in a god, because it fosters good feelings in you, and it is most likely that you don't acknowledge the opposite as being very possible, because that idea would cause you dread, dispair, sadness, and depression. I don't know why it is such a hard concept to grasp. That people of faith draw solace from having a faith. Faith isn't some force that compells you to suspend your free will. It is a choice you make for yourself. You are right in that what I said is a trap, but the fact that you sidestepped it entirely. Only proves you were scared to confront said trap, and in doing so you only prove my point. Even if you are too scared to face up to the truth that your feelings blind you to reality, because you don't want to get hurt.
You know there is nothing wrong with admitting that you are scared. That is all I am fundamentally asking you to do. Admit that you are too scared to leave that feeling of security. Copping to what you are doing is the only way you can rationally move forward, because unless you are willing to evaluate your emotional motivations. You will never discover any other outlooks on life. By the way life doesn't need a meaning. I think it is pretty apparent that the meanings we decide to attach to our lives. Are entirely of our own devising.
Would you care to continue on without sidestepping this issue. This is the place where innocense goes to die. So I will understand if you bow out.
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I am ready to face your questions. What should he be scared of, and what if his emotional attachment is to truth. What then, when truth and emotion meet, and his one and only desire is to seek what truly lies behind the fog?
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What he is probably afraid of is literal death, or a form of Thanatophobia. Religious thinking is equal parts placebo and opiate. It dulls the rational mind, offers up a type of euphoria, and convinces the user that use will cure them of their ailment. Basically it is like getting stoned, and thinking you are better off for doing it in the first place. If he admits that he is taking a drug to deal with a problem. Then not only will the drug stop working, but the problem he was self medicating away will resurface with a vengeance.
If he admits that his faith is brought about by a emotional need, and has no basis in reality. He must also admit that the choice he made had a ridiculously low chance of success. Given that humanity has generated tens of thousands of religions, and it isn't guaranteed that even one of them is right. Well let us just say it would be the height of hubris, and a megalomaniacal vanity. For him to assume he through sheer dumb luck found the right answer. He would probably reach the most rational conclusion, and that is he is fallible, and because something feels right. It doesn't equate out to it being right.
There is a difference between searching for what you want, and searching for genuine understanding. If you have already redefined a fact to serve your own purposes then you are just being disengenuous, and you are actively engaged in self deception. Death is death. It takes a leap of genuine desire to redefine it as a fog of ignorance. When the apparent nature of what happened is painfully simple. Namely a living person is no long alive. You can argue for a fog of ignorance if something happens for a unknown cause, or if something counter intuitive takes place, but people dying is a mundane fact of life. The only reason someone would label death as a fog is, because they desperately want there to be more.
So seeing as you took me up on my offer. Let me ask you was your choice based upon a emotion, and are your emotions fallible, and if you agree to those two. Isn't it reasonable that you say you could be wrong, and are probably wrong. In other words can you say that your god is probably a lie.