UPDATE
I wanted to update everyone on what has happened since I posted this thread. I was never able to fully reclaim the character I created. However I was able to transfer the basic elements into a new game. Which allowed me to retain my characters level and story progress. Basically I lost my inventory, and all my collectibles, but I was able to get most of that back. The game allowed me to replay the majority of my side quests. Even though it showed them as being completed, and I was able to revisit main story quests in other players games. So I lost a total of perhaps ten hours, and as many levels.
Since I transferred the character I have finished leveling my character up, and have completed the game. With all that said I can happily say the issues I remarked on earlier have all seemingly been resolved. I have had no issues with my game saves. Neither have any of my friends still playing. If anything the game is running smoother then it ever ran before my mishap. The only problem I encountered was a few slow loading instances when I had really overtaxed my inventory. I wouldn't suggest carrying over five thousand items in your inventory. Honestly that isn't something that should normally happen anyway. I only ever had that much, because I was abusing a quest that allowed me to turn in a certain number of items for a big experience reward.
Anyway the developer seems to have fixed the problems, and if my comments scared you off. You should take a second look at this game. Right now it seems to be relatively bug free, and it is even more balanced now then it was before. I actually plan to buy the expansion when it comes out for this game.