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thetonestarr said:


Really? Well, that's retarded.

Either way, homeschooling is legal in every single large primarily English-speaking nation out there. So while it's illegal in Germany, this family came from a background where it's a regular part of society, so it can't be considered THAT big a deal.

And yes, there IS a big difference, but we still don't know any of the background here, so it's terrible to jump to such sweeping conclusions.


And it's absolutely unlikely, but it's much more interesting and absolutely more fun, so I'm sticking to it. :p

It's illegal in Germany, so it is a big deal. I think you and everyone suggesting this kid was homeschooled are the ones jumping to conclusions. They lived in a tent for 5 years. Do you really think he took the time to teach him Maths and stuff?



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kurasakiichimaru said:

You know nothing about his father's parental skills too. Homeschool is still not out of the question here(even if you question it's legality there). And what's bad in living in a forest? And who said they were living like wild animals? You're grasping at straws here.

You'd probably be the laughingstock here if it turns out this story is fake.

Why? I myself said in an earlier post that it's very likely to be fake. One of the first thoughts that came to my mind when I read it was the balloon boy case. For the argument's sake, we should pretend it's true 'till it's confirmed to be fake though.



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sapphi_snake said:
thetonestarr said:


Really? Well, that's retarded.

Either way, homeschooling is legal in every single large primarily English-speaking nation out there. So while it's illegal in Germany, this family came from a background where it's a regular part of society, so it can't be considered THAT big a deal.

And yes, there IS a big difference, but we still don't know any of the background here, so it's terrible to jump to such sweeping conclusions.


And it's absolutely unlikely, but it's much more interesting and absolutely more fun, so I'm sticking to it. :p

It's illegal in Germany, so it is a big deal. I think you and everyone suggesting this kid was homeschooled are the ones jumping to conclusions. They lived in a tent for 5 years. Do you really think he took the time to teach him Maths and stuff?


I'm fairly certain with this single statement you've negated every last piece of logical argument I was willing to assume you could make. You clearly misunderstand entirely what it means to "jump to conclusions". I said I'm willing to have an open mind and NOT make any assumption (though in not so many words). That means I'm NOT jumping to conclusions - I'm NOT automatically saying he was an evil man without knowing all the facts, and I'm NOT condemning him while only having a couple sentences-worth of vague description of the situation.

 

You know absolutely NOTHING about what's gone on here. There are INCREDIBLE amounts of information that we haven't been given, yet you're willing to close the book and be done with it, already having made your decision. That is arrogant, that is ignorant, and that is stupid.

In addition, how the hell do you even know they KNEW they were in Germany? As far as you know, they may have wandered in from Poland or the Czech Republic on accident while they were moving around in the forest. You don't know the situation behind what they went through. Stop being so closed-minded and arrogantly assuming you do.



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thetonestarr said:


I'm fairly certain with this single statement you've negated every last piece of logical argument I was willing to assume you could make. You clearly misunderstand entirely what it means to "jump to conclusions". I said I'm willing to have an open mind and NOT make any assumption (though in not so many words). That means I'm NOT jumping to conclusions - I'm NOT automatically saying he was an evil man without knowing all the facts, and I'm NOT condemning him while only having a couple sentences-worth of vague description of the situation.

 

You know absolutely NOTHING about what's gone on here. There are INCREDIBLE amounts of information that we haven't been given, yet you're willing to close the book and be done with it, already having made your decision. That is arrogant, that is ignorant, and that is stupid.

In addition, how the hell do you even know they KNEW they were in Germany? As far as you know, they may have wandered in from Poland or the Czech Republic on accident while they were moving around in the forest. You don't know the situation behind what they went through. Stop being so closed-minded and arrogantly assuming you do.

I was just presenting a possible explanation (which is also the most likely if this story isn't fake).

Homeschooling is legal in the Czech Republic and Poland under restrictive conditions (i.e. the kids are supervised by a school, and need to take annual exams). I'm also not sure that there's any forest which stretches from the outskirts of Berlin to Poland or the Czech Republic. If there is one, please mention it. And thr schooling part isn't the only thing wrong with this situation.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
thetonestarr said:


I'm fairly certain with this single statement you've negated every last piece of logical argument I was willing to assume you could make. You clearly misunderstand entirely what it means to "jump to conclusions". I said I'm willing to have an open mind and NOT make any assumption (though in not so many words). That means I'm NOT jumping to conclusions - I'm NOT automatically saying he was an evil man without knowing all the facts, and I'm NOT condemning him while only having a couple sentences-worth of vague description of the situation.

 

You know absolutely NOTHING about what's gone on here. There are INCREDIBLE amounts of information that we haven't been given, yet you're willing to close the book and be done with it, already having made your decision. That is arrogant, that is ignorant, and that is stupid.

In addition, how the hell do you even know they KNEW they were in Germany? As far as you know, they may have wandered in from Poland or the Czech Republic on accident while they were moving around in the forest. You don't know the situation behind what they went through. Stop being so closed-minded and arrogantly assuming you do.

I was just presenting a possible explanation (which is also the most likely if this story isn't fake).

Homeschooling is legal in the Czech Republic and Poland under restrictive conditions (i.e. the kids are supervised by a school, and need to take annual exams). I'm also not sure that there's any forest which stretches from the outskirts of Berlin to Poland or the Czech Republic. If there is one, please mention it. And thr schooling part isn't the only thing wrong with this situation.

No, you were presenting a highly biased opinion based on one possible explanation. And you're still getting stuck on the false assumption that "legal" equals "right". Just because you cross borders into another nation doesn't automatically make the way you once believed and lived suddenly morally wrong. It's now illegal, yes, but it's not necessarily wrong. Some laws exist because the situation in that certain locality is different. Did you know it's illegal to wear high-heeled shoes without a permit in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California? Does that mean that a person that enters the city wearing high-heels is suddenly a bad person? Absolutely not, and you'd be a complete fool to say so! In Carmel's case, high-heels are illegal because the town is extremely compact, extremely busy, and has uneven walkways, so people wearing high-heels would frequently turn their ankles. Making it illegal to wear them makes it easy to protect the city from being sued when someone twists their ankle.

In Germany's case, they don't feel that homeschooling is a sufficient enough method of acquiring education - not because they think it's "wrong" to homeschool your children, but because they want to be able to control the quality of education that everybody in their country receives.

There's also the chance that the family was merely visiting the country and didn't even know the education laws. Legally, ignorance is not an excuse, but morally? You can't morally fault someone for doing something they had no clue was illegal.

Finally, there are no proper forests south of Berlin that are sufficiently big enough for a man and his son to live in, either, and definitely nothing large enough that the boy wouldn't stumble across dozens of other roads, farms, and towns along the way into Berlin along a two-week long trip. So if he did make this trek, it's perfectly logical to believe they'd have come from other countries originally.

 

Anyways, the ACTUAL most logical and likely explanation is that the family was visiting, whether for only a short vacation or for a year-long job assignment, it doesn't matter. But they probably weren't permanent residents of Germany, Poland, or the Czech Republic. The father was probably there when the mother died, or else under an extreme amount of stress when she died and he received the news. If he was there, he possibly took on a head injury himself and suffered brain damage. Otherwise, the shock of the situation caused him to mentally crack, and he freaked out. Either way, he was probably extremely mentally unstable and took their child and fled into the woods.



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sapphi_snake said:
Kasz216 said:

This is just going to be another one of those cases your not going to understand till you take a sociology class.

Culture forms views, but views ALSO form culture, because that's exactly what culture is.  A persons views.

The smaller the group or culture, the larger the impact a persons view will have an culture.

Your view is biased and... actually quite bigoted for two reasons.

1) The importance on ethnic minority.  Why shouldn't someone be able to give up their culture to accept a minorities culture?  To suggest they shouldn't is akin to inferring that said culture is inferior and only fit for the minority out of tradition.

2) A focus on what only exists currently, which basically rejects all counter culture movements.

You know what was a counter culture movement?  The Civil Rights movement in numerous countries.  According to you, those people should apparently have to conform to racism and sexism, since back then it was the law, and there was no ethnic or racial minority involved.

Your arguements always seem to veer straight for liberal to Neoconservative/Authoritarian.

 

A culture isn't a person's views. A culture is a group of people's views (though the term 'view' is quite inappropriate, as culture is much more than that). Counter-culture, like any form of culture, is a group phenomenon. Civil rights movements had marginal groups protesting against their status,and demanding that they not be excluded. What one individual does is not a counter culture movement.

And it's funny that you mentioned Sociology. Culture falls more in the realm of Anthropology, but what both Sociology and Anthropology have in common (well, they have several things in common, but I'm going to single out this one) is that they study groups, not individuals. Psychology generally works with people on an individual level, but Sociology works with groups. And culture is a group phenomenon.

This man in the article (if this story is true), was not part of any counter-culture movement. He was just crazy man who took his son and forced him to live in a forest for 5 years. He'd make an interesting case study for Psychologists.

Except you know... counter culture groups often begin with one person... and aside from that he's far from being the first isolationist.

Also... no... culture isn't more in the realm of anthropology.

Cultural Sociology Is the largest section of the American Sociological Assosiation... and most of the sections that aren't Cultural Sociology are in fact dealing with Culture... outside of like Demography maybe.

I know this because I was like 3 classes away from a Sociology degree, my Girlfriend has a sociology degree, a sociology masters degree and is about to take a comprehensive exam on Cultural Sociology.

Anthropology is like the equilvent of Demography... where your mostly just getting statistics about.

Well.... unless your taking part in Social Anthropology.  Which is basically less scientifically sound sociology.

 

Aside from which, an Anthropologist would likely disagree with you even more then a Sociologist.



I feel pretty bad for this kid, though he does have an interesting story to tell for the rest of his life. His dad was a strange one, that's for sure.



Kasz216 said:

Except you know... counter culture groups often begin with one person... and aside from that he's far from being the first isolationist.

Also... no... culture isn't more in the realm of anthropology.

Cultural Sociology Is the largest section of the American Sociological Assosiation... and most of the sections that aren't Cultural Sociology are in fact dealing with Culture... outside of like Demography maybe.

I know this because I was like 3 classes away from a Sociology degree, my Girlfriend has a sociology degree, a sociology masters degree and is about to take a comprehensive exam on Cultural Sociology.

Anthropology is like the equilvent of Demography... where your mostly just getting statistics about.

Well.... unless your taking part in Social Anthropology.  Which is basically less scientifically sound sociology.

 

Aside from which, an Anthropologist would likely disagree with you even more then a Sociologist.

It's quite irrelevant that counter-cultural movements start with one person. They only become movements when they are adopted by a group of people, and they're always based on collective experience . And what's more important, they concern groups of people, not individuals. Can you imagine a guy, let's call him Ben, start a counter-culture movement concerning only him, of which only he is part of? He is different than any other person in the world, because he is Ben, and no one else is Ben. Such a thing would fall in the real of absurdity.

Counter-cultrue and subcultures concern groups of people (emphasis on the groups part).

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Counter-culture

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Subculture

And have you not heard of Cultural Anthropology?

Oh, and neither a Sociologist nor an Anthropologist would disagree with me (I actually know people who are both, not to mention that any Sociology or Anthropology book will say that culture is a group phenomenon). You're just wrong about this. Admit it and move on.



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"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

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thetonestarr said:

No, you were presenting a highly biased opinion based on one possible explanation. And you're still getting stuck on the false assumption that "legal" equals "right". Just because you cross borders into another nation doesn't automatically make the way you once believed and lived suddenly morally wrong. It's now illegal, yes, but it's not necessarily wrong. Some laws exist because the situation in that certain locality is different. Did you know it's illegal to wear high-heeled shoes without a permit in Carmel-by-the-Sea, California? Does that mean that a person that enters the city wearing high-heels is suddenly a bad person? Absolutely not, and you'd be a complete fool to say so! In Carmel's case, high-heels are illegal because the town is extremely compact, extremely busy, and has uneven walkways, so people wearing high-heels would frequently turn their ankles. Making it illegal to wear them makes it easy to protect the city from being sued when someone twists their ankle.

In Germany's case, they don't feel that homeschooling is a sufficient enough method of acquiring education - not because they think it's "wrong" to homeschool your children, but because they want to be able to control the quality of education that everybody in their country receives.

There's also the chance that the family was merely visiting the country and didn't even know the education laws. Legally, ignorance is not an excuse, but morally? You can't morally fault someone for doing something they had no clue was illegal.

Finally, there are no proper forests south of Berlin that are sufficiently big enough for a man and his son to live in, either, and definitely nothing large enough that the boy wouldn't stumble across dozens of other roads, farms, and towns along the way into Berlin along a two-week long trip. So if he did make this trek, it's perfectly logical to believe they'd have come from other countries originally.

 

Anyways, the ACTUAL most logical and likely explanation is that the family was visiting, whether for only a short vacation or for a year-long job assignment, it doesn't matter. But they probably weren't permanent residents of Germany, Poland, or the Czech Republic. The father was probably there when the mother died, or else under an extreme amount of stress when she died and he received the news. If he was there, he possibly took on a head injury himself and suffered brain damage. Otherwise, the shock of the situation caused him to mentally crack, and he freaked out. Either way, he was probably extremely mentally unstable and took their child and fled into the woods.

You are aware that your last paragraph makes the possibility of homeschooling seem quite unlikely, no? It also makes the possibility of child abuse very probable. And we go back to what I originally said.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

I 100% disagree.

First, if the father is an international businessman of some sort, then it's 100% likely that he was highly educated and would want to pass that education on to his son, regardless of his mental condition. Granted, he probably didn't educate his son properly, or equally in all areas, but it's absolutely probable that he taught his son all sorts of important things.

Second, again, you're speaking from an extremely biased and opinionated view on this, and you need to stop it. You are being incredibly arrogant and simple-minded here. Just because in YOUR experience and in YOUR opinion abuse would be more probable in this case doesn't make it so. In this kind of situation, if he was taking the boy into the woods with him out of fear, then it's by far most likely that he would have taken excellent care of the child because he's protecting him. Does that guarantee that's what happened? Absolutely not! You could be entirely right, but how can you know? YOU DON'T. So stop arguing it, because it's quite retarded to do so.

END OF DISCUSSION. You're beating a dead horse by now. It's blatantly clear that you're wrong and you don't know what happened, yet you insist on continuing to argue. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED.



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