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Shadowfest3 on 23 July 2011
sapphi_snake said:
sad.man.loves.vgc said:

Went out with the skype guy last night. It sucked badly. We didn't even hold hands. He was so cold and it made me feel like crap. I guess all the waiting was for nothing -.-

Don't worry, you'll meet someone else. Try OKcupid.

I have an OKcupid profile.  I've made some friends on there just nothing real promising.  Of course they tend to be 60 - 160 miles away and so it's difficult to hang out with them and develop anything future.  I need to find someone in my own town.  Lol



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sad.man.loves.vgc on 23 July 2011
Shadowfest3 said:
sapphi_snake said:
sad.man.loves.vgc said:

Went out with the skype guy last night. It sucked badly. We didn't even hold hands. He was so cold and it made me feel like crap. I guess all the waiting was for nothing -.-

Don't worry, you'll meet someone else. Try OKcupid.

I have an OKcupid profile.  I've made some friends on there just nothing real promising.  Of course they tend to be 60 - 160 miles away and so it's difficult to hang out with them and develop anything future.  I need to find someone in my own town.  Lol

I still haven't tried it. Can't be arsed.



Radamanthys on 23 July 2011

Well, I pretty much re-registered myself because of this topic (had another account, completely forgot my old password *facepalm*). Reading some of these posts brought tears to my eyes. You guys are truly amazing... :)

I've been in a relationship for a month. It's my first relationship, and I hope it all goes according to that (awesomely) lame Barry White song ("My First, My Last, My Everything"). :3 I'd been in love before, but with the "wrong" people: the first time, I fell in love with a straight guy, which happened to be my best friend - well, my only friend at that time, actually, but that's a whole other story. It was thanks to this that I realized I was (am) gay... and then proceeded to be closeted until I was almost eighteen. Since I came out of the closet (a year and seven months ago, woohoo) I had a couple of crushes and then I fell in love with another friend of mine... who already had a boyfriend.

For a year or so, I'd tried to "erase" those feelings. But of course, feelings don't just magically disappear, and focussing on them doesn't help either.

It was when I stopped trying that I met my boyfriend. xD I honestly feel like I've known him for so much longer than I actually do... in an incredibly short amount of time, he's managed to dispel some of my deepest insecurities. For the first time, I consider myself happy. Not just "content", but happy. 



Shadowfest3 on 26 July 2011
Radamanthys said:

Well, I pretty much re-registered myself because of this topic (had another account, completely forgot my old password *facepalm*). Reading some of these posts brought tears to my eyes. You guys are truly amazing... :)

I've been in a relationship for a month. It's my first relationship, and I hope it all goes according to that (awesomely) lame Barry White song ("My First, My Last, My Everything"). :3 I'd been in love before, but with the "wrong" people: the first time, I fell in love with a straight guy, which happened to be my best friend - well, my only friend at that time, actually, but that's a whole other story. It was thanks to this that I realized I was (am) gay... and then proceeded to be closeted until I was almost eighteen. Since I came out of the closet (a year and seven months ago, woohoo) I had a couple of crushes and then I fell in love with another friend of mine... who already had a boyfriend.

For a year or so, I'd tried to "erase" those feelings. But of course, feelings don't just magically disappear, and focussing on them doesn't help either.

It was when I stopped trying that I met my boyfriend. xD I honestly feel like I've known him for so much longer than I actually do... in an incredibly short amount of time, he's managed to dispel some of my deepest insecurities. For the first time, I consider myself happy. Not just "content", but happy. 

This is AWESOME!!  Congrats on finding someone .  I hope this goes really well for you!



Radamanthys on 26 July 2011
Shadowfest3 said:
Radamanthys said:

Well, I pretty much re-registered myself because of this topic (had another account, completely forgot my old password *facepalm*). Reading some of these posts brought tears to my eyes. You guys are truly amazing... :)

I've been in a relationship for a month. It's my first relationship, and I hope it all goes according to that (awesomely) lame Barry White song ("My First, My Last, My Everything"). :3 I'd been in love before, but with the "wrong" people: the first time, I fell in love with a straight guy, which happened to be my best friend - well, my only friend at that time, actually, but that's a whole other story. It was thanks to this that I realized I was (am) gay... and then proceeded to be closeted until I was almost eighteen. Since I came out of the closet (a year and seven months ago, woohoo) I had a couple of crushes and then I fell in love with another friend of mine... who already had a boyfriend.

For a year or so, I'd tried to "erase" those feelings. But of course, feelings don't just magically disappear, and focussing on them doesn't help either.

It was when I stopped trying that I met my boyfriend. xD I honestly feel like I've known him for so much longer than I actually do... in an incredibly short amount of time, he's managed to dispel some of my deepest insecurities. For the first time, I consider myself happy. Not just "content", but happy. 

This is AWESOME!!  Congrats on finding someone .  I hope this goes really well for you!



Thanks, m8! ^^, I hope so, too. And I wish you all the best as well. :D



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Radamanthys on 26 July 2011
Shadowfest3 said:
Radamanthys said:

Well, I pretty much re-registered myself because of this topic (had another account, completely forgot my old password *facepalm*). Reading some of these posts brought tears to my eyes. You guys are truly amazing... :)

I've been in a relationship for a month. It's my first relationship, and I hope it all goes according to that (awesomely) lame Barry White song ("My First, My Last, My Everything"). :3 I'd been in love before, but with the "wrong" people: the first time, I fell in love with a straight guy, which happened to be my best friend - well, my only friend at that time, actually, but that's a whole other story. It was thanks to this that I realized I was (am) gay... and then proceeded to be closeted until I was almost eighteen. Since I came out of the closet (a year and seven months ago, woohoo) I had a couple of crushes and then I fell in love with another friend of mine... who already had a boyfriend.

For a year or so, I'd tried to "erase" those feelings. But of course, feelings don't just magically disappear, and focussing on them doesn't help either.

It was when I stopped trying that I met my boyfriend. xD I honestly feel like I've known him for so much longer than I actually do... in an incredibly short amount of time, he's managed to dispel some of my deepest insecurities. For the first time, I consider myself happy. Not just "content", but happy. 

This is AWESOME!!  Congrats on finding someone .  I hope this goes really well for you!


Oops, double post. Sorry! ^^'



Wonktonodi on 07 September 2011

wow for the first time in far too long I have someone I am interested in. The problem is he lives 400 miles from me. Saw him once a month and a half ago and again this last weekend. Just not sure what to do at the moment. Currently I'm just thinking keep talking with him until I can see him again.



Wonktonodi on 08 September 2011
axumblade said:
My 5th anniversary is next month. I really don't know what to get him. It makes me sad because i want to buy him something special but money has been really tight right now. :/


don't worry about how much you spend  instead take the time to plan something nice but on a budget. Also congratulations on having your fifth aniversary.



sapphi_snake on 08 September 2011
axumblade said:
My 5th anniversary is next month. I really don't know what to get him. It makes me sad because i want to buy him something special but money has been really tight right now. :/

Don't worry, just do something really sweet and thoughtful to show him how much you care. You don't have to get him a rolex.



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scottie on 08 September 2011
axumblade said:
My 5th anniversary is next month. I really don't know what to get him. It makes me sad because i want to buy him something special but money has been really tight right now. :/


Presents don't have to be expensive to be special