Why did he "half do it" then instead of just plain doing it?

Anyway, on the subject: my current gf is no so keen on it, but she is willing to try. Her condition is that she'll wait until after marriage, lol. I mean, we were gonna marry next year anyway because it's the best for both (she's a foreigner and we need papers to live in each others countries), but now I really have a reason (jk).

Maybe he didn't go all the way, because he is very small.

Regarding your GF, is she at least willing to have vaginal intercourse? Please tell me she'll do at least that (also, be aware of girls who say "I will do X in bed once we'll get married", as they usually end  becoming all frigid and do nothoing after they've trapped you; just find a girl that actually likes sex). Also, marrying someone so they can get citizenship in your country is a bad ideea (and possibly illegal). Don't marry her unless you wanna spend the rest of your life with her.

Of course I have sex with her, lol.I had sex with her from the very first moment. If I didn't I wouldn't marry her. C'mmon, what girl would wait till marriage to have sex? I said I've met one single girl like that in my life and she had never ever had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. I don't know about Romania, but here that's really, really, really rare and basically unnacceptable to 99.99999% of the population.

And she does like sex. I mean, not as much as me, but that's hard.

We are marrying not just for the papers themselves, that's just the best way to be together, coz just now she's here with a student visa and that sucks. I love her and wanna be with her so that's the best and easiest way, and marrying wasn't her idea anyway, so it's not like she's trying to trap me. We are moving to Japan soon so the situation would be the same for me. We're gonna be together for a long time so marriage is ideal. I wouldn't do it just now if there were easier ways, but it's not something I'll regret either coz I love her.

Edit: and just so you know I've been with her for over 2 years, so don't worry I know who I'm dealing with.

LOL@ the bolded. You guys saw eachother and started humping?

Speaking of crazy virgin stories, I remember my grandmother and a friend of her's (about the same age) having a conversation about a girl she knew from her youth who was so sheltered that she didn't know what sex was 'till she got married. She literally found out on her wedding night (she was 18 or 19), when the fresh groom told her what they were suppose to do, and she became all hysterical and had a nervous breakdown (true story).

We knew each other before, but we started our relation by having sex, that's how it works usually. You don't just say "hey, we should be a couple!" and then have sex months later.

About your granma... well, it was another time, I can believe that more easily from the 1940s, 50s. Now it would be impossible for that to happen.

Maybe he didn't go all the way, because he is very small.

Regarding your GF, is she at least willing to have vaginal intercourse? Please tell me she'll do at least that (also, be aware of girls who say "I will do X in bed once we'll get married", as they usually end  becoming all frigid and do nothoing after they've trapped you; just find a girl that actually likes sex). Also, marrying someone so they can get citizenship in your country is a bad ideea (and possibly illegal). Don't marry her unless you wanna spend the rest of your life with her.

Wrong. Very wrong. Who's life experiences are you referring to on this one? Every person I've met or discussed that issue with always come from the aspect of having a lot of sex before marriage to none during marriage. Comparatively, those that go from none into marriage do quite well.

Several men on the Men's Health forum, on the divorce threads. And having lots of sex before marroage is also a tactic that women use to trap a man. However a girl telling me she wouldn't have sex with me 'till marriage, or she wouldn't do X thing before marriage, suggests to me that she's frigid and hates sex.

Or she wants to save herself for the right guy, and give it all to him. My wife and I waited until we were married. It was great knowing that we could learn everything together, rather than one of us going in with certain experiences, desires, and knowledge. Rather, we both learned at the same rate, which has been immensely beneficial for both of us.

Ironically, surveys done concerning sexual satisfaction usually result in very religious women saying they are far more satisfied with their sex lives than their non-religious counterparts.