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Rainbow Yoshi said:
S____M____C____C said:

no i don't want to see a picture of a 14 year old girl! imagine she, or her dad found out you were posting pics on an online site.

just leave it a while, its only been a few weeks since you asked her out, and you might come across as a bit obsessed to her. just be friends with her, and maybe try again in a few months time if you think your making progress. btw when i was your age i often found the chase to be more fun than the catch!


Which is why I wouldn't do it, when I say convince me it would almost be impossible to.

please tell me you haven't taken a sneaky pic of her anyway



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S____M____C____C said:
Rainbow Yoshi said:
S____M____C____C said:

no i don't want to see a picture of a 14 year old girl! imagine she, or her dad found out you were posting pics on an online site.

just leave it a while, its only been a few weeks since you asked her out, and you might come across as a bit obsessed to her. just be friends with her, and maybe try again in a few months time if you think your making progress. btw when i was your age i often found the chase to be more fun than the catch!


Which is why I wouldn't do it, when I say convince me it would almost be impossible to.

please tell me you haven't taken a sneaky pic of her anyway


Nope, the other way round, she did.



weird. maybe have a proper chat sometime with her if you really like her. don't drop the 'love' bomb though



makingmusic476 said:
A203D said:

I actully have the same dillemia with someone i know. i didnt manage to ask her out the first time since i was interuppted when her boss walked into the office.

the problem is i like to get to someone as a sort of semi-friend, then when they feel comfortable - i will ask them out. but its not an easy situation since finding moments with this person is scarce.

i'll probabily go for it again, its just breaking the ice properly (again) then making an attempt. - my advice is go for it man - i know i'm going to!! just get to know her a bit better then go for it!


I'm in a somewhat similar situation involving a girl from one of my classes last semester.  I've been trying to track her down since class ended, but no luck.  =/

OT:  I would say ask her out again, since at this point it can't really hurt, but I know if I were in your situation I'd struggle to actually do that.   I hope whatever you decide to do works out well.

Well yours seems a bit more difficult. i see my person at work, now and again, but its finding moments where you can talk without being interrupted or eavesdropped, lol - which is nigh on impossible where i work.

the only problem i have man is, okay i'm fine with asking her out, but some girls need you to go in slow, get to know em first, but just getting the oppertunity to get there is impossible.

i'm going to tell her the truth man, she knows what i think of her, since we make eye contact a lot - which is the first step i think. so i'm going to tell her its difficult trying to find a spare moment to get to know her, but i'm trying and that we should try getting to know each other outside of work - as friends, so we'll go out as a group of friends - mine and hers and then hopefully i can work it out that way. if it dosent work it dosent work - at least theres no regrets!

i suggest for your situation you try and get to know some of her friends and then start getting to know her that way - and see her on nights out. but getting to know someone on campus is really hard - with all the messy timetables and stuff.



Yeah... now I think Rainbow Yoshi is actually a FBI agent who is trying to trap us and catching us for being a pedofile..... luring us with pictures of 14 year old girls....



 

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NiKKoM said:

Yeah... now I think Rainbow Yoshi is actually a FBI agent who is trying to trap us and catching us for being a pedofile..... luring us with pictures of 14 year old girls....


The ol' bait and cuff. I know it too well, I'm already banned from working with children... and animals.



I was too nervous to speak to her, I don't know why.



Rainbow Yoshi said:

I was too nervous to speak to her, I don't know why.

yeah the good old fear of rejection.... you're young.. you'll learn how to deal with it...



 

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