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A203D on 16 May 2011
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makingmusic476 said:
A203D said:

I actully have the same dillemia with someone i know. i didnt manage to ask her out the first time since i was interuppted when her boss walked into the office.

the problem is i like to get to someone as a sort of semi-friend, then when they feel comfortable - i will ask them out. but its not an easy situation since finding moments with this person is scarce.

i'll probabily go for it again, its just breaking the ice properly (again) then making an attempt. - my advice is go for it man - i know i'm going to!! just get to know her a bit better then go for it!


I'm in a somewhat similar situation involving a girl from one of my classes last semester.  I've been trying to track her down since class ended, but no luck.  =/

OT:  I would say ask her out again, since at this point it can't really hurt, but I know if I were in your situation I'd struggle to actually do that.   I hope whatever you decide to do works out well.

Well yours seems a bit more difficult. i see my person at work, now and again, but its finding moments where you can talk without being interrupted or eavesdropped, lol - which is nigh on impossible where i work.

the only problem i have man is, okay i'm fine with asking her out, but some girls need you to go in slow, get to know em first, but just getting the oppertunity to get there is impossible.

i'm going to tell her the truth man, she knows what i think of her, since we make eye contact a lot - which is the first step i think. so i'm going to tell her its difficult trying to find a spare moment to get to know her, but i'm trying and that we should try getting to know each other outside of work - as friends, so we'll go out as a group of friends - mine and hers and then hopefully i can work it out that way. if it dosent work it dosent work - at least theres no regrets!

i suggest for your situation you try and get to know some of her friends and then start getting to know her that way - and see her on nights out. but getting to know someone on campus is really hard - with all the messy timetables and stuff.