Honestly I don't think it's ever "Weird" to be a virgin. Its admirable in most cases.

I sorta' know how it's supposed to work, but not really. I don't know anything about female anatomy concerning the lower abdomen, so...Not a big deal, though, since it won't affect me anytime soon. I don't like getting touched. I don't even like hugging, so I doubt that anyone will ever be able to make me do anything.

I'm one of the proud and few, huh? Most people know how it works when they're in middle school, don't they? I'm almost a senior in high school. Lots of girls think that it's great that I, you know...actually look at their face when I'm speaking to them. Actually, all of my friends are girls...

How is it admirable?

I guess I have a double standard ingrained into.  I don't want to date girls who have been with other guys (or atleast a lot of other guys), but if a guy is a virgin its kind of weird.

I felt weird being a virgin at 16, but looking back I would say after 20 it is kind of weird unless you really are ugly or have anziety disorders to the extreme.    My friend who is 22 and a virgin and no girlfriend is often thought by people he might be gay, poor guy, but even  Iwonder myself considering he is hotshit . I mean in a non gay way. lol

Haha...It's okay. I'm straight, don't worry (well, leaning more towards asexuality since I think that physical contact is weird) I will definitely agree that one should NEVER try to talk to girls about music, but they're generally civilized otherwise. And I don't watch much TV, so I don't care. And the most violent console game that I have (outside of 999) is Monster Hunter Tri or Goldeneye 007, and they don't qualify as violent as far as games go. Until I go away to college next year, I won't be able to own any violent video games.

It's just my personal preference. Guys scare me about 99% of the time. I grew up in an abusive household, so that really didn't raise my opinion about guys at all. Plus, I've never been able to have a conversation that lasts longer than 5 minutes with a guy because I can't stand it when they start making jokes about sex or female anatomy. I haven't had a male friend since I was 10.

So, at this point, I've pretty much given up on high school-aged guys as far as friends go. Maybe it'll be different once I'm in college. I'm pretty inept when it comes to striking up a convo with a dude, so maybe not even then!

Of course it's not a requirement (otherwise premarital sex wouldn't exist), but then it just degenerates into hedonism, doesn't it?

And what's the problem with a bit of hedonism? Sex gives pleasure, pleasure is good.

And what is virginity for, then?

Why does it have to be 'for' something? It's just something that is.

If it's not meant to be saved for your spouse, then who's to say that extramarital or multiple partners is unethical and unsanctioned? If it were ethical, then STDs wouldn't exist, would they? How else do you get them?

STDs exist for the same reason that influenza exists. Because it's a convenient way for diseases to propagate. Also if you use a condom you aren't going to get a STD anyway.

I kind of get the feeling that you're coming from a perspective of 'God made STDs to punish fornication/adultery' which I'm going to have to disagree with on the grounds that I don't believe in God.

I mean, if what you're saying is true, then by your viewpoint, we should look up to people who have multiple sex partners. If that's true, then why do STDs exist?

Look up to? Not really, just not look down on.

So you like to date virgin girls, but experienced guys?

Agreed. I think the better question would be why do people rush to sex? Why is there so much pressure and why do so many people think its wierd if you go through your teenage years keeping your virginity?

Sooo.... okay. Exploration of sexuality. Fine. But why would a person need to explore with another person so early in life? Doesn't sex require you to give yourself up emotionally to another person? Unless, as I said, you're doing it for pleasure's sake, in which case it degenerates into hedonism.

Anyway, even if sex allows you to grow more intimate with a partner, don't you want to get to know your partner before any activity occurs, rather than depending on a sexual encounter to define a person?

So... are you basically saying that sex with other people is fine until you commit? After that, you're stuck? Because that's just... I mean, imagine getting married and then telling someone on your honeymoon, "Oh, hey, I've already had sex with 4 people, by the way." Not real fair.

Yeah, sute.