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Xen on 06 February 2011
NiKKoM said:
Xen said:
NiKKoM said:

Ah too bad you're a girl and too young to solve it as guys... beer solves our problems..

Anyway, if you didn't steal her boyfriend there is always a chance girls can get past there problems.. maybe she needs space at first, maybe it will take some years.. but in the meantime don't hate her.. hate doesn't solve anything.. remember the good times you had with her and she will remember it too in time...

*hugs*

Years? Don't exaggarate.

There is no solution here other than confronting the problem. The "years" and "space" parts come if you screw up.

they are girls... normal men stuff doesn't count in this.. we can have a fight and drink a beer together afterwards.. men can confront each other cause they know there is beer afterwards... girls can scratch each others eyes out just because they don't like the look another girl gave her... after years of personal research I came to the conclusion that girls can hate and be mean for nothing..  Most of us have been there when his gf/wife has a fight like this. We all learned, with or without scars, to stay away from it and let time solve the problem.. even if it's years... girls tend to forget after a period of time what they were fighting about and only remember the happy times..

My experiences go the other way - then again, you are older, so I suppose you just have more...



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Crystalchild on 06 February 2011
Xen said:
NiKKoM said:
Xen said:
NiKKoM said:

Ah too bad you're a girl and too young to solve it as guys... beer solves our problems..

Anyway, if you didn't steal her boyfriend there is always a chance girls can get past there problems.. maybe she needs space at first, maybe it will take some years.. but in the meantime don't hate her.. hate doesn't solve anything.. remember the good times you had with her and she will remember it too in time...

*hugs*

Years? Don't exaggarate.

There is no solution here other than confronting the problem. The "years" and "space" parts come if you screw up.

they are girls... normal men stuff doesn't count in this.. we can have a fight and drink a beer together afterwards.. men can confront each other cause they know there is beer afterwards... girls can scratch each others eyes out just because they don't like the look another girl gave her... after years of personal research I came to the conclusion that girls can hate and be mean for nothing..  Most of us have been there when his gf/wife has a fight like this. We all learned, with or without scars, to stay away from it and let time solve the problem.. even if it's years... girls tend to forget after a period of time what they were fighting about and only remember the happy times..

My experiences go the other way - then again, you are older, so I suppose you just have more...


whoa! that depends on the girls. where i live, girls are drinking MUCH more than some of the guys. (Which is a good thing if you are one of those guys with braincells left. :>)and they solve their problems the manly way too. in fact, some of them are manly enough to always slap me in LBP for no Reason. so mean. Q_Q xD

so yes, it just depends on the person, not the gender, and there arent any 'manly' ways to solve something.

 

@topic:

Well, the most important thing is to find out where the Problem lies.  (How long do you know her? where do you met her? in school? in your neighborhood?) since i have 3 sisters, 'some' bitching around is quite normal for most of the Girls in your Age, to a certain point.

Just tell her that you dont want it to be like this, that you dont want to fight with her about things that are not worth it, and ask her what exactly is bugging her so much about you. Important is: try to stay nice, even if she is raging around.



I'm a Foreigner, and as such, i am grateful for everyone pointing out any mistakes in my english posted above - only this way i'll be able to improve. thank you!

Tino Vainamoinen on 06 February 2011

This conversation does not make sense...to me...

but I will say, girls hate for no reason that is half true...

girls can hate for being called ugly or any other name, dirty looks, stealing bf, and a big one is because they hate your friend! BUT THERE ARE A LOT MORE!

@ NiKKom why do you still have "I miss NFG" in your sig?



NiKKoM on 06 February 2011
Tino Vainamoinen said:

@ NiKKom why do you still have "I miss NFG" in your sig?

Cause I want you to know that we don't want you ever to leave the site again... don't do that to us ever again!



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

Tino Vainamoinen on 06 February 2011
NiKKoM said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:

@ NiKKom why do you still have "I miss NFG" in your sig?

Cause I want you to know that we don't want you ever to leave the site again... don't do that to us ever again!


Okej, yet I won't post as much...and hey? did you give me my Netherlands flag? if so thank you!



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Chairman-Mao on 06 February 2011
Tino Vainamoinen said:

thanks for all your help and support I knew I was alone


You're not alone. I love you so much :)



Tino Vainamoinen on 07 February 2011
Chairman-Mao said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:

thanks for all your help and support I knew I was alone


You're not alone. I love you so much :)


I didn't say this...don't retype it and act like I said something I OBVIOUSLY didn't say.

It's wrong to fabricate other words...



Chairman-Mao on 07 February 2011
Tino Vainamoinen said:
Chairman-Mao said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:

thanks for all your help and support I knew I was alone


You're not alone. I love you so much :)


I didn't say this...don't retype it and act like I said something I OBVIOUSLY didn't say.

It's wrong to fabricate other words...

lol you deny saying that? Check your 2nd post. 



twesterm on 07 February 2011

Ok, I'm really not trying to sound heartless but the fact you're here and worrying about people not telling you what to do instead of asking yourself what you did to make her say that says a lot.

Figure out why she said that and then figure out what to do.

Also, 10 VG$ says this is NFG...



 

Disrarge on 07 February 2011

My friends all know I hurt them on purpose to mess with them, like a douchebag.

I won't have this problem. I'll say birch/abhole(censored for the children lol), you know I don't kare.

But we are a similar age tino, so maybe I could relate if I tried... Just tell her your sorry for all that you've done to her and want to start a new relationship.