| Hephaestos said: he doesn't need to cheat on his boyfriend... he can bring her to the couple... I mean you say she's good looking and all....
and I actualy read Rape instead of Repel in the title... |
At first glance, so did I. I just didn't want to admit it because everyone would look at me funny.
*looks at you funny*
| dunno001 said: Okay, not knowing the area, but respecting a not wanting to come out, here's what I would say: "Sorry, but I'm not interested in any relationship right now. With all the things I'm doing in college, I wouldn't have the time, nor would it be fair to someone if I were to allow myself to be in one. And even if you say it's okay, it's not to me, since I would start to feel guilty, and it would have a negative impact on my schoolwork and thus, my future. You're a nice person, but I can't be with you." If she were to continue to persist, you'd need to get more curt. If she keeps pushing, something like: "I've said that I'm looking at my future. Your pestering me means that you're more for the now than the future. This makes us simply incompatible; you've lost any chance you may have had. Now get out of my face before you piss me off." It may seem harsh, but like it or not, if they can't respect what you've said, then they don't deserve continued pleasantries. |
You know, you're post would be the most usefull one, except...I said that he's gonna persue med school, not that he's currently in med school. He decided to take an year off before he srats Uni (he wants to have an year to relax before he starts 6 years of med school). So sadly the excuses you proposed are no good. 
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
| Hephaestos said: he doesn't need to cheat on his boyfriend... he can bring her to the couple... I mean you say she's good looking and all....
and I actualy read Rape instead of Repel in the title... |
Haven't you ever heard of monogamy? And his boyfriend is gay, so I doubt he'd be interested in that even if she were Sofia Vergara.
Oh, and LOL @ the Rape thing.
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
greenmedic88 said:
All anyone should really have to do is say in no uncertain tones, "Sorry, but I'm just not interested in you." About the only girls who won't "get it" are the ones who are so unusually attractive that they simply aren't used to being shut down. In which case, the easiest and most effective brush off is to just say "I'm GAY." |
Like I said they have common friends. If he does that he'd be basically coming ou to everybody.
"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"
"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."
(The Voice of a Generation and Seece)
"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"
(pizzahut451)
It's simple. He just needs to say he's not interested. If she insists, he could say he just wants to be friends with her, he doesn't want to be romantically involved. And if she doesn't get it he can tell her to frak off! :P
He's 19, tell him to grow a pair and be honest with her. Coming up with complex lies and such only leads to hurting her in the future.
| NiKKoM said: Why doesn't he just say he doesn't like her in that way? geez... |
A simple solution. I think it will work. Also, have him say that he only likes her as a friend so it will let her down easy. In this way he is being honest and keeping his closet door closed for now.
leo-j said:
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Sucks to be sensitive... i wouldn't care less if its someone who is downright annoying.
- Wasteland - The Mission.
It *might* be more than just a bit difficult to keep it a secret for six years...
Just have sex with her, he/you might turn out to be straight after all?
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