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do nice guys finish last?

Yes the do. Be a man 17 39.53%
 
No. A nice guy is refreshing 6 13.95%
 
depends on money and what they look like 8 18.60%
 
What? this guy hasn't been banned yet? 12 27.91%
 
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youarebadatgames on 23 February 2010

If nice guy = pussy who gets walked on all the time, then yes they finish last. If asshole = guy who doesn't put up with bullshit and stupidity, then yes they finish first.

It's possible to be a nice guy who doesn't put up with bullshit and stupidity, that's just called being confident and knowing what you want = finish first. Or you could just define finishing first = bagging that skank ho, then anybody wins with enough money.



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SaviorX on 23 February 2010

Nice guys finish last, and in the bedroom they finish first.



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SciFiBoy on 23 February 2010

yes, im always nice to people IRL, and it seems to get me nothing but rejection



O-D-C on 23 February 2010
CommonMan said:
Of course nice guys "finish" last, if you finish first, the girl usually doesn't finish at all.

Wait?! Are we talking about sex?

QFT!



Sorcery on 23 February 2010

No they don't. Only one type of nice guy finishes last, and that's the timid kind that lacks self-confidence (which is the majority of nice guys).

My best friend was always a nice guy, but he had severe self-esteem issues. Once he finally got over his confidence problems, he stopped finishing last. He has a beautiful wife, everyone loves being around him, and no one gives him shit anymore.



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d21lewis on 23 February 2010

When it comes to women? Yes. Every single fucking time. When I was a dick, I couldn't go home without stumbling into some p----. Before that, when I was single with a job, no kids, and a positive attitude, I couldn't buy it.

But, in retrospect, I wish I'd stood by my convictions. All nice guys, if you read this, keep being nice. Nothing is worth losing who you are. At the end of the day, you are left with yourself. Make sure that's somebody you can be proud of.



Esmoreit on 23 February 2010

I have a theory that the vast majority of women are still, subconsciously submissive to men in larger or smaller degrees. This means that as a man you should be dominant to a certain degree to tickle a ladies subconscious interests.

Mind you, being dominant doesn't mean that you should be a dick. It just means that you take control which, for the outside world might seem dickish. When you decide the restaurant openly or make a demand, it might trigger her actually into liking you while the rest of the world things you treat women like crap.

Mind you, that's merely part of it. You should still be a nice guy only in a different way then you are used to. Women like to be taken care off. Being protected. That might come off as old-fashioned but in general a woman feels intimacy or warmth when she crawls against you on the couch or wants your arm around her while walking. You create that essense in three ways:

1 - Most importantly: self-esteem and confidence. Sorcery was right in this. Self esteem radiates, and tells a woman that you know yourself and what you are good at.

2 - Dare to show initiative. Leadership is a great attractor and feeds into what I mentioned in the second paragraph. Probably has something to do with the alpha-ape etc.

3 - Make her feel safe. A nice guy seems like a push-over and doesn't make her feel safe. This has little to do with brawn (though it helps) but more how you act around her. Don't be possessive (shows lack of confidence) but do show that you are willing to back her up.

That all the tips I can give.



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Kamal on 23 February 2010
Esmoreit said:
I have a theory that the vast majority of women are still, subconsciously submissive to men in larger or smaller degrees. This means that as a man you should be dominant to a certain degree to tickle a ladies subconscious interests.

Mind you, being dominant doesn't mean that you should be a dick. It just means that you take control which, for the outside world might seem dickish. When you decide the restaurant openly or make a demand, it might trigger her actually into liking you while the rest of the world things you treat women like crap.

Mind you, that's merely part of it. You should still be a nice guy only in a different way then you are used to. Women like to be taken care off. Being protected. That might come off as old-fashioned but in general a woman feels intimacy or warmth when she crawls against you on the couch or wants your arm around her while walking. You create that essense in three ways:

1 - Most importantly: self-esteem and confidence. Sorcery was right in this. Self esteem radiates, and tells a woman that you know yourself and what you are good at.

2 - Dare to show initiative. Leadership is a great attractor and feeds into what I mentioned in the second paragraph. Probably has something to do with the alpha-ape etc.

3 - Make her feel safe. A nice guy seems like a push-over and doesn't make her feel safe. This has little to do with brawn (though it helps) but more how you act around her. Don't be possessive (shows lack of confidence) but do show that you are willing to back her up.

That all the tips I can give.

I covered all this, still hasn't got me no where "." Have I been forsakened?



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CommonMan on 23 February 2010
Kamal said:
Esmoreit said:
I have a theory that the vast majority of women are still, subconsciously submissive to men in larger or smaller degrees. This means that as a man you should be dominant to a certain degree to tickle a ladies subconscious interests.

Mind you, being dominant doesn't mean that you should be a dick. It just means that you take control which, for the outside world might seem dickish. When you decide the restaurant openly or make a demand, it might trigger her actually into liking you while the rest of the world things you treat women like crap.

Mind you, that's merely part of it. You should still be a nice guy only in a different way then you are used to. Women like to be taken care off. Being protected. That might come off as old-fashioned but in general a woman feels intimacy or warmth when she crawls against you on the couch or wants your arm around her while walking. You create that essense in three ways:

1 - Most importantly: self-esteem and confidence. Sorcery was right in this. Self esteem radiates, and tells a woman that you know yourself and what you are good at.

2 - Dare to show initiative. Leadership is a great attractor and feeds into what I mentioned in the second paragraph. Probably has something to do with the alpha-ape etc.

3 - Make her feel safe. A nice guy seems like a push-over and doesn't make her feel safe. This has little to do with brawn (though it helps) but more how you act around her. Don't be possessive (shows lack of confidence) but do show that you are willing to back her up.

That all the tips I can give.

I covered all this, still hasn't got me no where "." Have I been forsakened?

Depends, if your avatar is a picture of you, then you may just want to crank your expectations down a few notches.



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oldschoolfool on 24 February 2010

Number one wins. Looks like I'm not going to ask for a ban. poll/thread closed.