Kamal said:
Esmoreit said:
I have a theory that the vast majority of women are still, subconsciously submissive to men in larger or smaller degrees. This means that as a man you should be dominant to a certain degree to tickle a ladies subconscious interests.
Mind you, being dominant doesn't mean that you should be a dick. It just means that you take control which, for the outside world might seem dickish. When you decide the restaurant openly or make a demand, it might trigger her actually into liking you while the rest of the world things you treat women like crap.
Mind you, that's merely part of it. You should still be a nice guy only in a different way then you are used to. Women like to be taken care off. Being protected. That might come off as old-fashioned but in general a woman feels intimacy or warmth when she crawls against you on the couch or wants your arm around her while walking. You create that essense in three ways:
1 - Most importantly: self-esteem and confidence. Sorcery was right in this. Self esteem radiates, and tells a woman that you know yourself and what you are good at.
2 - Dare to show initiative. Leadership is a great attractor and feeds into what I mentioned in the second paragraph. Probably has something to do with the alpha-ape etc.
3 - Make her feel safe. A nice guy seems like a push-over and doesn't make her feel safe. This has little to do with brawn (though it helps) but more how you act around her. Don't be possessive (shows lack of confidence) but do show that you are willing to back her up.
That all the tips I can give. |
I covered all this, still hasn't got me no where "." Have I been forsakened?
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Depends, if your avatar is a picture of you, then you may just want to crank your expectations down a few notches. 
