can we get a mod in here to lock this thread, I have my answer : p

(see post things that make me seem gay for no apparent reason)

If she is trying to hook up with you when she already has a boyfriend, what would stop her from hooking up with other guys if you two became an item?
I say you walk away

Bust his knee caps.

Then take heraway upon your noble steed, and ride off into the sunset!

I saw it in a movie once.

that thought has crossed my mind

I could also train him as my apprentice in the dark side and then we could build a big round planet destroyer and try to find his son who would eventually redeem him.

Also from a movie : p

Are you friends with/know the boyfriend?

nope Iv never seen or met him

I'd say your doing everything right... and stay course.

Don't bother betraying your principals for someone who just wants it both ways and have a tryout before the switch...

and if she cares enough she'll dump the guy.

Look at it this way. Let's say she breaks up with him and starts dating you. Then one night she'll go to a dance and dance with some other guy who will be grabbing her ass and slobbering on her neck and then she'll be trying to go back to his room but then he'll find out she has a boyfriend, but who knows if he'll be a gentleman like you were. Maybe he'll flip a coin and try out some crazy new internet-sex moves on your girlfriend.

that jerk!

but ya Im obviously aware of history repeating itself, so I think Im just going to let this one go... she is cute though : p