Don't align with any side. Align with the views you find reasonable, for good reasons. Educate yourself about things, ask yourself what's right and what's wrong, be open-minded, be ready to accept you might have been wrong and need to change your opinion. If someone says something unbelievably stupid, stop to think if you might have misunderstood them instead of them being so stupid. Seek the truth and aspire to be moral instead of picking sides. Sometimes, or maybe even often, this might align you with a particular side, and sometimes, or maybe even often, it might align you with the opposing side. Maybe you fall in the middle. Ultimately it doesn't matter though.