| curl-6 said: Man, it's really strange adjusting to life post-cancer. For nearly two years I've never thought very far ahead into the future as it felt like I wouldn't be here in a year's time; it's a huge relief to no longer have that constant crushing fear on my back, but I'm still getting used to thinking beyond just the next few months. Maybe it's better to focus on the short term anyway, rather than always looking to the horizon and forgetting to living in the moment. Traumatic as it was, maybe the whole experience has improved my life in some ways, made me a better person. |
Thinking to far ahead is ok, but use it more as a what I would desire to have in life rather than I must have in life.
For me these days, I don't even think ahead what I will do the next day lol. Just go with the flow, work and if others need my attention I slot them in. However I would not recommend this way of life, try to at least consider some long terms plans. This way of life drives my wife crazy lol. I basically tell her see how I feel on the day lol. Hard to plan a weekend away when you think that way.
