Liking something Gay folks like makes you gay as much as liking pasta makes you Italian.

[Runa216]

JWeinCom said:

Dunno how many times you've had sex, and not asking, but if you only did it as bottom and only had 2-3 orgasms. I dunno. Doesn't seem worth it to me. 

I don't know if mtf trans women can have orgasms. Honestly, never thought about it before. 

I've orgasmed once without penis contact (wet dream) so I know it's possible without any contact at all... It was actually a bizarre moment. It was like when you're in the matrix and you die in the matrix you die in real life XD.

For now, I'm pretty happy to stick with the holes I'm used to. I'm a basic kind of guy. I like my burgers plain, and my tea black. If you want to have a hawaiin style burger and a mango peach bubble tea though, go for it. 

Maybe one day a manic pixie dream girl nympho will come along and expand my horizons XD.

I am not strictly a bottom, not sure where you got that impression. But that's just it, I do have male genitals and I do stimulate them...it just happens to be the best when I'm also playing out back if you get my drift. I can jerk it or fuck someone just fine and the orgasms are enjoyable enough, but anal stimulation really does take it up about three or four notches. The point I'm trying to make here is that it's possible to orgasm JUST from anal stimulation, just like some people can get off by being tickled or gagged or choked. I can't get off to any of those methods, personally, but the butt stuff is the best. 

and that said, there's nothing at all wrong with Vanilla fun. IT's the most common and prevalent form of intimacy for a reason. It works, it's perfect for most people, and if it makes ya happy that's perfect. Different people have different thresholds for different things. You like your kinks vanilla and simple. I wanna sit on a dick so big it'd make a horse blush. both of these preferences are entirely valid. 

My ethics are pretty simple. If it's consensual, then that's really all there is to it. Consensual = valid. IT might be weird or gross or even dangerous, but it's your body or the body of your partner, and if all parties consent, have fun! Just be smart about it and don't hurt yourself  (unless that's part of the kink). Like Majora said, some gay folks are strictly tops, others strictly bottoms, some don't like anal, there are bisexua people, asexual people, soloists, and vanillites. it all boils down to consent. If you ain't hurting anyone who doesn't want that, then it's all valid. 

No matter how uncomfortable it might make some people feel. 

Personally, I still need phallic stimulation for the most part, but it's best when paired with anal stimulation. Some people don't need penis contact at all! I know some folks who literally make little penis cages so they CAN'T touch themselves while they're doing butt stuff, that way they're forced to either not get off or ONLY to get off anally. I personally think that's weird as hell and counterproductive...but that's from my personal perspective based on my personal experiences. I don't entirely get it, but I Respect it! 

I wish more people were like that. "I don't get it, but hey, you do you!"