| Phoenix20 said: Forget Dating Apps, try Cold Approach. Do not get discouraged by rejections and keep powering on. Eventually you will get some numbers leading to more dates. It takes more courage to Cold Approach than hide behind Dating Apps. |
If you can get over the fear of rejection, the cold approach is the fun approach I find. Its something I have told my Son on countless times that if you wait to ask a girl out on a date you actually create this situaton where if you are turned down it crushes you. Instead I told him if you see someone you think is attractive, no matter how attractive they are, ask them out. If they turn you down, it really never hits your ego as hard as it would if you wait a week or month. I learned this after high school when I found out that a lot of girls I though I had no chance with actually told me they would have given me a shot but I was way to shy to say anything. After that, I started to ask any woman out I though was attractive and even though I got turned down a lot, I also got a lot of hits. Interesting enough, quite a few of them that turned me down in the beginning gave me a shot later on as I was pretty cool if shot down but made sure they knew I was not the friend zone person but instead someone who was always their ready for the opportunity. Never forceful or needy but also not the person to pocket into the friend zone and forget.
