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I believe there is probably this unrealistic expectation that technology will make everything easier and bam without any real effort you find the mate you have been looking for all your life. That is a myth. Instead technology just gives you more opportunities to find a mate but the real work is still meeting, reviewing and choosing the person. That part really does not change and it still takes work when you are dating, hell it still takes a lot of work.

Also with more choices comes the with the higher expectations as well. You meet a very nice, cool mate but she/he is slightly plump. You feel you can do better so hold out for that 8/9 on your scale thus missing out on someone who probably was a great catch.