Toxic players trash you in messages and party chat Xbox/PS4 fighting games etc

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use to get those ALL the time in mvc2 on ps3 and street fighter 4. It's really not a big deal imo, 95% of people would never do it to your face, so they're not worth your time. eventually, i just started going along with their "diss" like : "yeah, i'm totally scrubby, you played great!", they would quickly change their tone and reply something back nice, sometimes sending a friend request.
I 100% don't do online chatting or messaging since that generation, such an over rated experience, Nintendo has the right idea imo, but you SHOULD be able to chat with actual friends.