I can barely read that. Look, you seem to get into a lot of online chats and then complain about how toxic it is or getting into it with kids. Then post a topic here to include us in your drama. How about just stop using chat services with randoms. Stop using these things. Stop participating in them. Turn off that shit and stop letting it live rent-free in your head. Better things to do with your time. Play games with online friends. Maybe just avoid the online stuff. Just coming here every time you don't like what someone said is getting old. Sorry.
If you just want to talk about the general toxicity of online gaming then that is a discussion but not seeing that but then again, I can barely read the post.