Tinder worth paying for?

[curl-6]

numberwang said:

curl-6 said:

Well, just got back from my first date since March. So that's progress.

She's super nice but I'm just not attracted to her physically, so I'll try to be friends with her. I get the feeling she wants more than that though so I'll have to let her down easy which I hate as it makes me anxiety go into overdrive; I feel terrible when I make others feel bad.

It was a big step forward for me to meet her, it's my first in-person meeting with a non family member in months and I was really scared with my OCD in overdrive as it is, but I managed somehow.

I've matched with a few hotties over the last couple weeks but they never seem to message back, I'm still not nailing those opening lines it seems.

Did her pictures not match reality?

Attractive girls are in online dating 9/10 times spam for Instagram/onlyfans or prostitutes.

Yeah she looked cuter in her photos and the angles kinda hid that she was overweight which I'm not into. Still, at least I've hopefully made a new friend.

Atm I'm honestly more motivated by lust than a desire for a serious long term relationship; I wouldn't be opposed to the latter if it naturally developed, but I'm foremost looking more for something casual. It's been too damn long.