Ka-pi96 said:
How is that transphobia? Not wanting to date somebody with a dick isn't transphobic. It just means you're either a straight man, or a gay woman. Nothing more, nothing less. The original post was wrong in the assumption that trans-women have dicks. That's not always the case. But regardless of whether they're pre or post-op not wanting to date them doesn't make you transphobic. And what's with the "quick reminder"? I mean, I agree that two consenting adults should be able to do whatever they want together, but in that situation the person considering it would be one of those adults and in my case I certainly wouldn't be consenting to anything. |
That's the whole point. The focus on genitalia (once again, none of your fuckin business except for the trans people you are intimate with) is toxic.
Sexual attraction isn't even based on genitalia. OBVIOUSLY, if you have a problem with the other person genitalia don't fuck them. But that shouldn't be a discussion in a transphobia related thread. Cis people here care moren about trans genitalia than most trans people.
Same shit with the whole pre-op/post-op dichotomy. It's a very personal thing, and most trans people won't tell their coworkers which surgery they had but somehow that's relevant to random internet people ?
Which surgery btw ? That's a usually a good question for cis peeps.
