Farsala said:
My father had his first kid at 23, and just now had a kid at 53. I plan on living to be 100, but I want to see my kids grow up to be at least 30s or 40, so that is my main desire for having kids early. I also want many kids, but I don't want one when I am old and might die before they can support themselves. So while the hope for children is still strong, it is the still healthy me part that isn't going as strong, the older I get. It is just my responsibility to be as healthy as I can I suppose. Edit: And I am sure you are well aware by now, but one reason it could have been so difficult to have a child is due to decreased fertility with age. Not only that but as the quality of the sperm decreases with age, the more likely a weaker sperm meets the egg and birth defects or worse happen. I wish I was rich enough to freeze my sperm, so that it is less risky in the future for my partner. |
Well, it is 2020, and there are many ways to "have" a child. There are lots of options, so the door never really closes unless we shut it.